I Blame Myself (with Faith Eury Cho)

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 30 January 2024

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Today I have an on air session with Faith Eury Cho. Faith and I talk about a difficult season she went through when everything was falling apart and it seemed like she had no one to blame but herself. We talk through the concept of self-blame, where it comes from, and how we can begin to take ownership of what’s ours to own vs. what’s not! In this one-air counseling session we talk through the details of her childhood, her Korean-American upbringing, increasing our expectations of God, and learning to let others own what belongs to them. We process why it’s so easy for her to take more blame and responsibility on her shoulders than she deserves. Listen to this powerful session with Faith, and as you do, ask yourself where you might need to “shift” some of the responsibility and ownership in your life in healthy ways. Tune in now! Additional Ways To Listen: iHEART RADIO Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written six books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, and RESET. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Are you a smart booker or a silly booker?
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0:13.0	Silly bookers? Well, enjoy those cues at the bar.
0:17.0	Stop booking around and visit Onthebeach.co.
0:20.0	Conditions apply. Seven night minimum stay, outbound only from selected airports from stop booking around and visit on the beach.com.
0:22.2	Conditions apply.
0:24.7	Seven night minimum stay outbound only from selected airports for up to six people, at all protected.
0:28.7	On the beach.
0:33.2	I feel like as a leader, there is that carnal, fleshly instinct that I do have.
0:40.8	And God never asked me to do this.
0:42.8	But I do have this thing where it's not right to blame anyone but myself.
0:47.6	Yeah.
0:48.1	That as a leader, that I'm supposed to absorb this.
0:51.6	And it's nobody's fault but my own.
0:59.6	Yeah. that I'm supposed to absorb this. And it's nobody's fault but my own. Are you ready to talk to me?
1:01.8	My name is Deborah Felida and I'm a licensed professional counselor, national speaker, and author.
1:07.9	Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people
1:12.5	get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. The purpose of this podcast is to have
1:19.4	on-air, authentic, counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people are really doing
1:26.1	and give my guests and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor.
1:32.7	Each of these episodes is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and relationally, together.
1:43.1	None of us are immune to the challenges and struggles of life,
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