Porn: Can You Learn From It?

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.3 • 6.8K Ratings

🗓️ 4 July 2023

⏱️ 63 minutes

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([TW // mentions SA, r*pe] If you would like to skip these portions of the episode, please skip through: 21:30-22:25, 51:30-52:05.) Porn gets a bad rap – for very understandable reasons. Today, I’m breaking down the reasons why with Dr. Wednesday Martin, and also playing devil’s advocate and giving you a new way to approach it. Can you learn legit sex skills from porn viewing? In this episode, I’m going through all the reasons porn might be triggering for some, so you know how to incorporate it into your relationship or your solo sex in a healthy way. Next, I give tips for how to watch it with a partner, and identify your personal turn-ons. Finally, I talk through edu-porn, audio erotica and other contemporary porn platforms that get you aroused…and sexually educated. Show Notes: 6 Secrets to Have the Best Oral Sex of Your Life LELO F1S V2 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide) ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Sex With Emily: Home More Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Study: Pornography does not cause violent sex crimes Make Love Not Porn (Cindy Gallop) Erika Lust Dr. Wednesday Martin on SWE: Dating Younger Men, Canceling Threesomes: Emily Tells All | It’s Open (Relationship) Season | Best of: Women, Lust & Infidelity Wednesday Squirts for the First Time with Kenneth Play & Whitney More Dr. Wednesday Martin: Instagram | Twitter | Website (wednesdaymartin.com) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Using porn to prompt a conversation about what you like and what you don't like, this
0:08.0	could be a position you want to try, a fantasy.
0:11.5	Maybe it's side by side porn viewing when you can share this experience together, learn
0:16.4	about yourself in the process.
0:18.4	So this is like a fun date and like turn that porn negativity into something because
0:22.7	like when they say it's not going anywhere, our dissident ancestors are watching porn,
0:26.6	how do we make it work for us rather than against us?
0:30.9	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:33.2	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation
0:38.9	around sex.
0:39.9	Listen, porn gets a bad rap.
0:42.5	For very understandable reasons, well today I'm breaking down the reasons why with anthropologists
0:48.0	and sex expert Dr. Wednesday Martin and also playing devil's advocate and giving you
0:53.0	a new way to approach it.
0:54.5	From educational porn, audio-erotica and other contemporary porn platforms that get
0:59.6	you aroused, can you learn legit sex skills from porn viewing?
1:04.0	But first, please rate your view Sex with Emily wherever you listen to the show, it
1:08.4	really helps.
1:09.4	So just do that now review it.
1:10.8	We love five stars.
1:12.4	My new article, Six Secrets to Have the Best Oral Sex of Your Life is up on sexwithemely.com.
1:18.9	Enjoy this episode.
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