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Lost Debate

Polyamory, Friendship, Love, and Jealousy with Molly Roden Winter

Lost Debate

The Branch

News, Politics, Society & Culture

4.6607 Ratings

🗓️ 1 April 2025

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Ravi sits down with Molly Roden Winter, author of More: A Memoir of Open Marriage, for a candid conversation about the emotional, messy, and deeply human side of nontraditional relationships. In More, Molly shares her journey through polyamory, jealousy, and personal growth, and what it really means to forge your own path in love. Molly and Ravi explore how Molly’s unconventional relationship structure evolved over time and how societal double standards have shaped our views on monogamy, control, and gender roles. Molly opens up about the intense reactions her story has provoked and why she believes it’s critical to define relationships on one’s own terms. Finally, Molly and Ravi discuss what it means to challenge societal norms without prescribing answers. Leave us a voicemail with your thoughts on the show! 321-200-0570 Learn more about Ravi's novel and upcoming events: GARBAGE TOWN The Branch is nominated for three Webbys! Vote for us: Fights in the Forgotten Borough (Best Limited Series, News and Politics): https://bit.ly/thebranchwebbys Killing Justice (Best Limited Series, Crime and Justice): https://bit.ly/WebbysKillingJustice Killing Justice (Best Partnership/Collaboration): https://bit.ly/killingjustice --- Follow Ravi at @ravimgupta Follow The Branch at @thebranchmedia Notes from this episode are available on Substack: https://thelostdebate.substack.com/ Lost Debate is available on the following platforms:  • Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lost-debate/id1591300785 • Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7xR9pch9DrQDiZfGB5oF0F • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LostDebate • Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5tZWdhcGhvbmUuZm0vTERJNTc1ODE3Mzk3Nw  • iHeart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-the-lost-debate-88330217/ • Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/752ca262-2801-466d-9654-2024de72bd1f/the-lost-debate

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0:00.0

Hello, everybody. Before we start today's episode, I just wanted to share that the branch has been nominated as of this morning for three different Webby Awards for our show Killing Justice, which is our podcast about an alleged political murder in India that we released last year in partnership with Crooked Media. We've been nominated for

0:21.4

Best Limited Series in Crime and Justice and Best Partnership and Collaboration. And for our series

0:27.0

Fights in the Forgotten Borough, which is the two-part series that we did about immigration

0:32.2

in Staten Island, we are nominated for Best Limited Series in News and Politics. So in the show notes, we've got a link to

0:40.8

where you can vote. For us, it only take a second. You don't have to vote for anything but us,

0:45.3

but obviously you can vote for more if you want. Go in there, cast a vote, and support the show.

0:50.8

And thank you for everybody for listening and supporting the work that we do. Let's jump into the

0:55.7

episode. Welcome to the Lost to Beta Show for Politically Ecclectics. I'm Robbie Gupta. And in a

1:01.5

second, we're going to hear from our guest who is Molly Roden Winter, who wrote a book that,

1:07.8

to say the least, was explosive, came out about a year ago. It's called Moore,

1:12.6

a memoir of open marriage where the book is exactly that. And I talked about this with Tyler

1:18.3

Austin Harper from the Atlantic a while ago when the book first came out. But it's the kind of

1:22.8

book that people were passing along and judging to say the least.

1:27.8

Everybody had an opinion about this book and about what Molly puts out there.

1:31.7

And we finally get her on and talk to her both about her experience in her open marriage,

1:38.1

but really about what she's trying to say through the memoir.

1:41.8

And so, you know, this is, you know, an episode that, you know, touches on mature themes. We don't get too explicit at all, but obviously, like, if you got kids in the car or something like that and you don't want them hearing about this kind of thing, you might want to just be careful where you listen to it. But I think this will be useful no matter where you are in life. And actually, Molly and I are very different parts of life.

2:01.9

She's got kids who are out in this world.

2:04.5

She's been married for a long time.

2:05.9

I'm single without kids.

2:07.9

But we have, I think, a discussion that goes beyond the exact content of a marriage and an open marriage to really talk about friendship and hobbies and relationships and jealousy and love and sex

2:20.2

and all these types of things, heterosexuality, homosexuality, you know, cross-gender friendships.

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