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Lost Debate

On Learning, Perfectionism, and Happiness with Oliver Burkeman

Lost Debate

The Branch

News, Politics, Society & Culture

4.6607 Ratings

🗓️ 27 March 2025

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Ravi sits down with journalist and bestselling author Oliver Burkeman (Meditation for Mortals and Four Thousand Weeks) to explore what it means to live a meaningful life in a culture addicted to optimization. Together, they explore the line between healthy ambition and toxic perfectionism, the “icky middle” of mastery and why it’s important to find joy in being an intermediate, and when to embrace creative neglect. Finally, they unpack the struggles of living in the digital era and discuss how we can build healthier relationships with screens. Leave us a voicemail with your thoughts on the show! 321-200-0570 Learn more about Ravi's novel and upcoming events: GARBAGE TOWN Want to meet Ravi and discuss Garbage Town in person?  RSVP to one of his upcoming events: Join Ravi and former New York congressman Max Rose in Manhattan: RSVP Here! Join Ravi for a book talk in Staten Island: RSVP Here! Join Ravi and Jason Kander at Left Bank Books in St. Louis: RSVP Here! --- Follow Ravi at @ravimgupta Follow The Branch at @thebranchmedia Notes from this episode are available on Substack: https://thelostdebate.substack.com/ Lost Debate is available on the following platforms:  • Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lost-debate/id1591300785 • Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7xR9pch9DrQDiZfGB5oF0F • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LostDebate • Google: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5tZWdhcGhvbmUuZm0vTERJNTc1ODE3Mzk3Nw  • iHeart: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-the-lost-debate-88330217/ • Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/752ca262-2801-466d-9654-2024de72bd1f/the-lost-debate

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to The Lost Debate, a show for Politically Ecclectics. I'm Ravi Gupta, and today's guest is somebody who I have been wanting to talk to for a while.

0:09.5

Oliver Berkman, who wrote the mega, mega bestseller 4,000 weeks time management for mortals and the new meditation for mortals.

0:18.1

And he is somebody who is really, really interesting and thoughtful about subjects

0:23.3

that we've been talking about a long time on this podcast, like optimization, productivity,

0:27.8

systems, habits, achievements, just like what to do with this limited space that you have

0:33.2

on this earth. So he and I have a really good conversation about his approach, some of

0:37.3

things I'm writing about in my book, and also topics like digital detoxification that we've been talking about for a long time on the show. But before I get there, my novel came out on Tuesday. You can get it wherever you get your books. Amazon's being a little wonky, but if you order from there, it will ship no matter what, like even if it says it's out of stock, there's like a weird warehouse thing going on, but could also get the novel wherever you buy books, whether it's Barnes & Noble, Target, bookshop.org to support your local booksellers. And if you love the book, I would appreciate if you went on Amazon and gave it five stars in a review and good reads, Storygraph or anything else. If you want to come see me in person, I'll be the night of this episode comes out. So on Thursday, I'll be in the Lower East Side on the 27th at P&T knitwear. We'll put a link in the show notes to that event. We'll also, I'll be in Staten Island on Sunday and then St. Louis on Monday

1:29.4

night. That event may be sold out by the time you're listening to this, but we'll put a link

1:33.2

in the show notes. If not, you can check that out. But really excited to have that book out in the

1:38.8

world. Let's get to Oliver Berkman. I think you're going to love this discussion and it's going to

1:43.5

prompt a lot of thinking

1:44.8

about a lot of the conversations that we've been having on this podcast.

1:49.0

Let's jump in.

1:53.1

Oliver, welcome to the podcast.

1:54.9

Thanks very much for inviting me.

1:56.8

Well, I probably had more people in my life say to me, hey, you need to read, and it used to be

2:03.4

4,000 weeks, but now it's Meditations for Mortals, which I think is both a mark of how

2:07.6

impressive your books are, but how pathological I perhaps am on some of the things that you're

2:13.7

pointing out in your book.

2:15.0

So it's great to be speaking.

2:17.2

I think this is, this conversation comes at a great time.

2:21.5

I'm going to anchor this because I've listened to so many of your interviews in preparation

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