Oh, okay. Hello, comfy dogs. Ooh, my holly-open, gorgeous, comfy dogs. Welcome to another

episode of Confidently and Secure. The podcast where you're absolutely sure we don't

know everything. I am your host, Kelsey Dera. And this episode, you guys, this is a really

fun one, okay, because listen to how this worked out. Normally, I'd go into like, here's

this person's accolades, here's like the thing we're talking about. But instead, I just

want to read you our guests email that I got from this person and then we'll go from there.

So let's, let's start. I got this email. It was hello. I won't read the compliments that

feels weird. They listen to the podcast. And they opened the world of polyamory to their

lifestyle. I have always been polyam. I just didn't know the language or examples to recognize

this until that episode inspired me. Oh, okay. I did read one. Compliment. Thank you very

much. I've always, I've learned there are many people in this world who could benefit

from knowing that polyamory is a viable relationship model too. Imagine if your partner openly

discussed that they are bound to act on other attractions because they believe in their

ability to share infinite love and it has nothing to do with nor will it take away any

love from you. It simply feeds their soul to engage in multi-love rather than line betray

usually implied monogamous agreements by having an affair. This type of disclosure would

force partners to actually hash out agreements to maintain their relationship, define boundaries,

choose to come to come together with love rather than complacency rely on monogamous structures

to prove love i.e. marriage. I am currently writing a book about my personal experience

with polyamory because I want to be a role model for others who could stand to know the

monogamous norm we are socialized into isn't their only options options. Relationships

are changing younger generations value authenticity and individuality. I know for a fact they are

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