Please Heal, Black Man (Guest: Clay & Margarita Gravesande)
Dear Future Wifey
Laterras R. Whitfield
5 • 1.9K Ratings
🗓️ 25 March 2024
⏱️ 143 minutes
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Summary
The most controversial episode in the history of Netflix's Love Is Blind, has set the stage to have conversations around how childhood trauma can impede decisions on marriage. Clay Gravesande, joined by his mom, Margarita Gravesande, share the yellow couch as we unpack the decision Clay made that upset the world. Should he have gone through with the marriage? Should he have ended the relationship earlier? This episode encourages you to choose the side of healing... "Please Heal, Black Man."
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| 0:00.0 | I realize that a lot of our African American men need a lot of healing and a lot of us aren't |
| 0:05.9 | vulnerable enough to say that we need healing. |
| 0:08.6 | I think that you know I was like watching myself and dealing with anxiety on that day. |
| 0:13.4 | Is that true? |
| 0:14.0 | Did you know beforehand that you was gonna say no? |
| 0:17.4 | I had a fear of bringing you on the yellow couch. |
| 0:20.9 | Why? |
| 0:21.5 | Because I had another episode where I had this guy, Derek Jackson, who |
| 0:26.2 | women was like, he is toxic, he was his relationship guru and all this. I brought him on the |
| 0:31.6 | podcast, women turned against me so then that trauma came to me but |
| 0:36.5 | holy spirit I feel like you're leading me to bring him on my podcast but the trauma of just last year of bringing this |
| 0:45.3 | other guy on there started making my doggone revenue on YouTube to cut in half I |
| 0:51.1 | said Lord I just bought the new house I don't have no time to be going through this Jesus. |
| 0:56.0 | God said do it. He said I want you ever seeking the approval of man. |
| 1:00.0 | If I before you who can be against you? |
| 1:02.6 | He says, so I want you to always keep your heart posture right. |
| 1:05.4 | Every second that escapes without you here with me, |
| 1:10.8 | keeps my heart anticipating until I finally see you. |
| 1:19.0 | When I made my vows, I told God that I was going to take care of this gift. |
| 1:25.0 | All my life I've been waiting for you. |
| 1:30.0 | Girl, you know I've been praying for you, |
| 1:35.0 | been writing these love letters to you. |
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