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EmPowered Couples with The Freemans

Permission Based Communication: Respecting Each Other's Boundaries and Bring Up Conversations Without Backlash: Episode 205

EmPowered Couples with The Freemans

Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

5.0589 Ratings

🗓️ 21 December 2021

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

Baby Freeman is HERE! If you're seeing this episode it means our baby girl was born :) But we recorded these episodes to make sure you have resources while we're snuggling her. The opposite of "Permission Based Communication" is "Permission-Less Communication"....which is more likely to lead to defensiveness, backlash, or an unintended argument. 

The thing is, it's not respectful to just bring up a topic whenever YOU want to talk about it. Why? Because it's not respecting and honoring your partner's boundaries or taking into account if they're really and open and prepared for it.

And this applies to moments when you want to: ask them to do something, express feelings you have about a certain issue, give them feedback, etc. 

Implementing "Permission-Based Communication" will help you two have more constructive conversations, so you'll love this episode! 

 

Also, make sure you watch the FREE WebClass we recorded for you all:

The 5 Step Process to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes, Instead of Hours, Days, or Weeks

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to the Empowered Couples podcast, where here you get modern, non-boring relationship advice for you and your partner to communicate like pros, fight smarter, and stay on the same team no matter the challenge that you face.

0:12.3

I am one of your host, Aaron Freeman.

0:13.8

And I'm Jocelyn Freeman, but you all just know us as the Freeman's.

0:17.0

And this episode is about permission-based communication, respecting each other's boundaries, and bringing up conversations without backlash.

0:25.0

And if you're hearing this episode, it means baby Freeman is here.

0:29.0

Oh, wow.

0:29.9

We decided, because we love you all so much, that we wanted to make sure we pre-recorded some episodes to make sure there is content while

0:37.7

we're off and snuggling with our newborn. And so, yay, she's here. And we have another gift for you.

0:44.7

Yes, baby Freeman said, give them a special gift. Give them a gift while you're off with me,

0:50.6

is what she said. So we actually recorded a web class for you all content that really

0:57.8

addresses the biggest pain points we see with couples related to conflict, which of course is related

1:03.4

to communication. They're like brother and sister, conflict and communication. And those challenges

1:08.4

being that things don't really get repaired and you're

1:12.1

disconnected for longer than you'd like after arguments or you have the same conflicts come

1:17.9

up over and over or another one is seemingly simple conversations tend to escalate into

1:25.1

a bigger conflict which is frustrating. So the whole web class is on conflict

1:30.1

repair and tools that will also help prevent unnecessary arguments as well. So go register for

1:37.2

this gift at online couples workshops.com slash repair. And the slash repair is important so that you specifically get this web class

1:46.7

so excited for you guys to enjoy that while we're snuggling with baby freeman and actually when

1:51.4

I think about this topic here for today permission based communication we don't have it in the

1:58.1

web class but it actually is something that helps to prevent

2:01.6

simple conversations turning into a disagreement or a conflict.

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