What if she's 5.3? Could you still say I find that tree every day?

No, I think a tree has to be tall. Like Harry's a tree.

Uh-huh.

Elise is a tree. Jessica's not a tree. She's a shrub.

Dear Shandy.

Welcome back to another Dear Shandy perfect match recap listeners. Hello, Andy. Hello. How are you today? I'm doing okay. How are you? Doing okay. Yeah, you look good. Oh, I look good. Yeah, you look cute. Oh, thank you, husband. Why are you saying it like that? I don't know. You always look cute. I'm just saying that it struck me. Oh, you just like when my hair's down. Is that what it is? Yeah, Andy loves it when my hair is down.

I just never that it struck me. Oh, you just like when my hair's down. Is that what it is? Yeah, Andy loves it when my hair is down. I just never wear it down. It's when you have long hair, it's really like gets in the way. You like feel it all the time. Yeah, that's good. But we have plenty of perfect match to get to. But we first have a couple of housekeeping announcements. We promised ourselves we would remember to say them. First of all, we're going to do that thing where we ask you to like and

subscribe and follow us on Instagram. If you like this, if you like this stuff. Yeah, we don't have to.

We are recapping perfect match, which we may or may not be regretting now because you asked us to. And so the very least

you can do in return is subscribe and just sort of help dear Shandy grow, right? Yeah, we got to

grow. Is that asking too much? I don't think so. Otherwise, otherwise if you don't grow,

you die. Well, you are always either growing or... Dying? Shrinking.

I guess there's a point where you just aren't growing or dying. You're just in the middle. Yeah, it's impossible. I guess you're always dying even before you're born. We're both dying right now as we speak. We are dying. We are more dead than we were when we started. The other announcement we have to make is about ads because we learned recently, We read this, that most people fast forward ads in podcasts and think that that does not affect anything. They think they're just saving

themselves time. But really, when you do that, the only people you're hurting are us, the host of

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I mean, if you feel like you've got the gist of it, then you can fast forward the rest of it. You got the gist. You got like 50% of the ad down. We tend to, we tend to drone on a little bit. No, we don't. No, don't say that. We don't drone. We don't drone. No.

We just are passionate about these products.

Yeah.

We never, ever advertise something we don't. No, don't say that. That's not true. We don't drone. No. We just are passionate about these products.

Yeah. We never ever advertise something we don't genuinely like. Yes. We, in fact, turned down a lot of stuff.

Oh, and also Apple Podcasts. We always forget that one. We're asking for a lot of stuff from you guys.

Everything. Give us everything. You know, the reason we feel like we should ask for stuff now is because this recap, or rather this episode, this finale, was not easy to get through. Yeah. This was not easy to get through. And therefore we feel like we're owed something. Yeah. I feel like the more we work, the more we do these messages. Yes. Let's get recapping. I mean, I think it's pretty obvious. I think what we're going to say about this. But nonetheless, we will recap because we are completionists. Is that a word? It should be a word. Right? It's a great word. So we pick up with Jessica and Harry and the now infamous I'll put a baby in you comment. Of course, we see Harry denying this. And now that we've seen the

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