Reditors who have caught their significant other cheating?

How did you catch them?

Did you give them another chance?

We went to a Halloween party at a friend's place.

I'd known she's had a bit of a crush on one guy who was to attend.

At one point late in the night, she was quite drunk.

She lined up at the washroom immediately after he went in.

I kept a bit of an eye on her and when

the bathroom door opened, she went in, but he didn't come out. I stood at the door and waited.

When it opened and he stumbled out, I immediately went in and confronted her about it. I'm

proud of myself for not committing murder that night. We're going through divorce now. Ten years

married with two kids. Really? You're going through divorce now. Ten years married with two

kids. Really? You're going to do it at a mutual friend's party in the bathroom? That's just got

bad idea written all over it. I didn't catch him. He called me the next morning crying and told

me everything. I respected his honesty, recognized his remorse,

and truly believed it would never happen again. So I decided to forgive him. But after he cheated,

he became incredibly paranoid. He started checking my phone, accusing me of revenge-screwing people

behind his back. Even got mad when I was assigned to work with a man on a group project

in school. I couldn't stand by the fact that he was the one who cheated and I was the one being

punished. I really had forgiven him. I wasn't holding his mistake over his head and my attitude

toward him didn't change after the fact at all, but he was driving me away more and more every day.

After about a month of this, I broke up with him and he completely lost it.

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