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Win Make Give with Ben Kinney

People Pleasers, Learn How to Say No & Stop Giving Away Those Yeses

Win Make Give with Ben Kinney

Ben Kinney Training

Education, Self-improvement

4.91.5K Ratings

🗓️ 7 July 2023

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

Telling someone no can create feelings of guilt and fear. In this episode, Bob Stewart and Chad Hyams discuss the challenges of saying no and tips for getting more comfortable with this two-letter word. If you struggle with giving out too many yeses (like Bob does), tune in! 

In this episode, we cover the following:

  • Challenges of saying no [1:18]  
  • Drawbacks of giving out too many yeses [2:35]
  • Saying yes to other people's priorities [3:50]
  • Inspirational words by Steve Jobs, Jay Papasan, and Gary Keller [5:33]
  • Buying back your time and energy [6:14]
  • Getting comfortable saying no [6:40]
  • Being direct when saying no [7:13]
  • Asking the requestor to follow up later [9:37]
  • Are there better ways to say no? [11:54]
  • Offering an alternative [13:17]
  • Being empowered to say no [15:53]
  • Setting and communicating boundaries [18:20]
  • Saying no without sounding like a jerk [20:10]
  • Inspirational words by Ryan Holiday and anonymous [20:45]

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Transcript

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0:00.0

And there we are, it's Chad, I'm here on the win-make gift podcast with Bob Stewart giggling

0:12.1

away to get things started and did that one on purpose, Bob.

0:15.0

I just put that little...

0:16.0

I knew exactly what I was doing, just opening it up a little bit different.

0:23.0

Hey, everybody, welcome to the win-make gift podcast.

0:25.0

As always, Chad, I'm here, Bob Stewart there.

0:27.4

Ben, can he, as well?

0:28.4

We're not short, right?

0:29.4

We'll grab that guy.

0:30.4

I don't worry about that.

0:31.4

I don't worry about that.

0:32.4

He's playing a Xbox.

0:34.4

He's moving a car right now.

0:37.4

Okay.

0:38.4

So, Bob, we recently had done an episode about bedtime.

0:44.0

We recorded that one not too long ago.

0:46.1

And during that episode, you gave us an idea for another great episode that we've gone

0:50.4

and done some research on and pulled together.

0:53.2

And now here we are recording this one.

0:55.5

What was the topic you threw at us, Bob?

0:57.5

Like, how to say no, basically.

0:59.6

How to be better at saying no, be okay with it, be comfortable with it.

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