Welcome to the Girl on Top Shallin XO podcast. I'm your host

Shallin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel where I analyze

celebrities and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives.

But here in the podcast I answer the best questions you

submitted over the past week and today we're going to be talking about how to spot a

healthy relationship whether or not you should call out a guy who ghosts and how to

get comfortable with the past you're not so proud of. And a reminder if you want to chat privately with me, find me on the

instant go app. My username is Shalin XO and click chat to get connected.

Also be sure to rate and review this podcast if you like it and find me on YouTube for four new videos a week. So, Mateo left me this question. Yes, ladies, we have a question from a real live boy, and not just a boy, a straight boy. a

straight boy. They're pretty rare around my channel.

So when I get one from a straight guy, I'm like, whoa.

And so you might be thinking like, well, I don't really want to hear from

dudes because I'm a chick and I

have chick problems but I think his question is going to resonate with a lot of you okay so he said

hi chalen this is Mateo I'm a 25 year old male and I think you're smoking hot

you know I had to include that.

He said I come from a Latino immigrant lower class family and I think that when it comes to

dating I have a lot of insecurities because of where I come from. I've had to make a

massive effort to educate myself

and climb the social and financial ladder almost to a fault and continue to work hard to

better myself. I resent sometimes having to compete against other guys who've just

inherited a lot of their successes

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