Welcome to Girl on Top, Shallin XO the podcast. I'm your host

Shallin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel where I analyze

celebrities and scandals for the lessons

we can take into our own lives.

But here in the podcast, I answer the questions you submitted over the past week.

And today, we're going to be talking about anxiety, friends who need help, friends who are making trouble, flat first day conversations, and why guys pay so much attention to the skank.

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So Brianna asked me this question.

She said, I'm in a really good relationship with my boyfriend except that he's diagnosed with anxiety and takes medicine for it to help.

And this affects his sexual life and sometimes he has erection problems and for me, sex is... and this

effects effects his sexual life and sometimes he has erection problems and for me sex is really important in a relationship

but once in a while like I have to cope with this issue and like we can't have sex and I get sometimes angry or frustrated which causes us to fight.

So what do you think is this a deal breaker or can this be improved and how because right now

I'm like at the end of my rope. So, you guys might have seen the video I did on anxiety.

I actually took it down because Zane Malik was not happy that I called him,

the thing that I called him which I won't repeat but

Anyway, but in that video I say that anxiety is basically two things it's self-absorption with the perceived sense of

powerlessness, right? Because when we get anxious, we go into spirals and

there's spirals about what's going to happen to us. What's going to happen to me?

What's going to happen to the world?

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