Hello and welcome to Happy Place. I'm Fern Cotton and this is the show that helps us love

ourselves and each other more deeply. Today I'm chatting to Paul Bronson.

And what I say is that instead of focusing on let me go out and try to find the one,

find your social capital. Do more of the things that turn your lights on. Do more of the things that make you go to sleep with a smile on your face and wake up with a

smile on your face and when you do that when your light is on I guarantee

you everything else in life becomes better you know and that's

that's ultimately the best strategy that we could use in life.

Paul is a relationship expert entrepreneur and TV host best known here in the UK for

Celebrity Dating and Married at First Sight.

He's the head of Global Research Insights at Dating App Tinder and has been named the world's most influential

matchmaker by the Matchmaking Institute.

And he's just written an absolutely gorgeous book that I'm incredibly excited to say is being

published by Happy Place Books.

It's called Find Love and it's got everything in there red flags green flags dating apps attachment

styles compromising basically everything that can make finding love

feel like an absolute minefield and And this all applies whether you're single

or in a relationship by the way. I've been married for nine years but I learned so much from this

chat with Paul. Oh and by the way some behind the scenes

Intel so producer and Nushka always reminds us not to touch the table if

possible because then you can hear it in your headphones and it's really annoying.

Paul, the lovely man that he is, was really doing his best to follow the rules.

Everything comes at a price, but not everything can be paid for.

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