Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today I want to talk to you about partial results in dating.

Before we get into that, I want to share with you my free guide called

copy and paste texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky. The link for that is going to be

in the show notes below. So I got this idea for the podcast today because I was reading through

the messages from my clients in the current coaching program from dating to

exclusive. If you don't know, this is a program that I run every four months, and we just started

about a month ago. So we have a private Slack group, and that's where all of the participants

can connect with each other. They can message

each other privately or in the group chat. We also do mindset work together and we can share it

with each other there and kind of get additional eyes on your brain in general. So a lot of chatting

happening in there. And right now I was reading through all of the messages over the last few days that the

women have been sending each other.

And it just warmed my heart because they are so funny.

And what I shared with them was like, I noticed that they all had two

general mindsets. One was silliness and playfulness and just having fun with the process and laughing

about mistakes they made and laughing about some of the people

that they encountered in the dating process and just making light of things and laughing at other

people's situations as well that they shared and just kind of having fun. They were also really supportive of each other.

They were messaging and responding back to different people's questions

or just empathizing and offering support when people reached out.

And the other thing that I noticed is that they all had a growth mindset as they were sharing these things.

So they weren't just complaining and commiserating.

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