So that's tough, I mean his hobbies are sports, he watches them or he plays them, he loves

to do that, which is great, it's a great outlet, I mean I love that he goes to the gym

and he takes care of himself, so that's important.

And then he's really good at what he does at work, he's striving to be the best and hopefully

with the vaccine mandate being lifted, it'll open up more doors for him because now he

works for the regional arm of an airline and know he's not a pilot so for anyone who's

flown at a shark much because of flying planes in that state of mind, but so hopefully

it'll just open up some doors for him that were closed because of his choices.

Well, I'm not trying to interject my experience or anything, but if he stays busy then you

don't think about the other stuff.

So I agree with you, I agree, I think on the side you can get going something that he's

really engaged in would probably be good for him and as his mom, you have to plant these

seeds without without being close to him, seeming like it was all your idea.

Yeah, yeah, you used you plan a seed and then his dad comes in and says, Hey, what

about that? He's like, Hey, wait a minute, I heard that from somewhere.

I can't remember where I heard that from.

I definitely didn't hear from mom.

Yeah. Yeah, you're right.

You know, you're right.

The busier you are, the less you think about the other stuff.

So that's why we got that's why we, you know, I got the cat, so that was a start

because at least I was going to be responsible for something.

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