Part 1 – Therapy, Narcissistic Leaders, and Healthy Ego | An Interview with Tony Overbay

Leading Saints Podcast

Leading Saints

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.8 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 10 September 2022

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Tony Overbay is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a Certified Mindful Habit Coach, and a popular motivational speaker. Tony regularly speaks at corporate training events, schools, and churches in formal and casual settings mixing humor, clinical experience, his Christian faith, and a wealth of personal stories gleaned from years of helping others achieve their goals. This is part 1 of a 2-part podcast discussion. Highlights 2:40 Introduction 5:30 Tony’s background and his story of becoming a therapist 13:50 Tony talks about his background helping people with pornography addictions. 17:00 Shame hasn’t helped anyone in their recovery from porn 18:45 Tony talks about the most common problems people come to him with 22:15 The types of clients that Tony normally works with 25:45 Tony explains how he helps his clients and how a lot of times it leads to the topic of emotional immaturity and narcissism 28:00 Tony’s new podcast, Waking Up to Narcissism 31:15 Is it easier for people to walk into a therapist’s office or a bishop’s office? 34:30 Tony shares an experience he had training Bishops in his stake about Fowler's stages of faith and his 4 pillars of a connected conversation. He shares what he thinks bishops should know and understand when trying to help people. Links PART 2 of this podcast Unhealthy Ways We Seek Validation As Leaders | An Interview with Tony Overbay The Bishop’s Strongest Tools to Help Addicts | An Interview with Tony Overbay Tony's podcasts The Path Back: Overcoming Pornography The Magnetic Marriage Course Tony's PDF of James Fowler's Stages of Faith Development Why Am I the Last Person to Know What to Do with My Life? Am I the Narcissist? Exploring Narcissistic Traits and Tendencies Read the TRANSCRIPT of this podcast Listen on YouTube Watch Tony's Leading Saints Live with 14-day access to the Core Leader Library The Leading Saints Podcast has ranked in the top 20 Christianity podcasts in iTunes, gets over 500,000 listens each month, and has over 10 million total downloads as part of nonprofit Leading Saints' mission to help latter-day saints be better prepared to lead. Learn more and listen to any of the past episodes for free at LeadingSaints.org. Past guests include Emily Belle Freeman, David Butler, Hank Smith, John Bytheway, Liz Wiseman, Stephen M. R. Covey, Julie Beck, Brad Wilcox, Jody Moore, John H. Groberg, Elaine Dalton, Tad R. Callister, J. Devn Cornish, Dennis B. Neuenschwander, Anthony Sweat, John Hilton III, Barbara Morgan Gardner, Blair Hodges, Whitney Johnson, Ryan Gottfredson, Greg McKeown, DeAnna Murphy, Michael Goodman, Richard Ostler, Ganel-Lyn Condie, and many more in over 500 episodes. Discover podcasts, articles, virtual conferences, and live events related to callings such as the bishopric, Relief Society, elders quorum, Primary, youth leadership, stake leadership, ward mission, ward council, young adults, ministering, and teaching.

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0:00.0	You're about to hear a conversation with Tony Overbay, a phenomenal marriage and family therapist out in California,
0:08.0	and we actually had Tony Overbay come out to Utah a few months ago and do a three, four hour presentation that was phenomenal.
0:16.8	So if you listen to this episode and you like what you hear, you can go to leading Saints.org
0:21.0	slash 14. That'll give you access to our full core leader library for 14 days.
0:26.8	That'll give you plenty of time to go through the additional content that Tony Overbay has
0:31.0	created in our leading Saints live content and it is worth a listen and it's all video and whatnot and he always makes it fun
0:37.8	So if you want to hear more of Tony go to leading Saints dot org
0:41.8	Fourteen and you'll also get our full library of content,
0:45.5	all of our virtual summits on helping individuals overcome pornography,
0:49.0	helping individuals with faith crises, all of it.
0:52.3	It's a phenomenal library that you must experience for at least 14 days.
0:56.4	So go to leading Saints.org. 14.
0:59.2	All right, let's go around the room, do some introductions. I'll start. So my name is Kurt
1:07.2	Frankham. I am the executive director of Leading Saints, which is a 501c3 nonprofit organization and we are dedicated you know have a
1:15.6	mission here to help Latter-day Saints be better prepared to lead. Now me
1:19.6	personally I live in Stansbury Park at Utah which is is in Twyla County. I grew up in West Valley City and
1:26.1	been running Leading Saints since 2010 when it started out as a hobby blog. 2014 is when the
1:31.9	podcast started and now we are over 10 million downloads and
1:36.0	man we're glad that you are now one of those downloads. Let's jump in. Hey everyone, this is Kurt Franklin with the Leading Saints Podcast and, well, you might also be listening to this on the Virtual Couch Podcast because this is a simulcast that's right so Tony over
1:56.2	bay came to Salt Lake we met up and I just said Tony we could probably think of a
2:01.0	phenomenal outline of what we could talk about, but let's definitely not do that because what typically happens when Tony and I get together is we have an outline and then we completely stray from that outline so we met up and I didn't even
2:14.3	let him you know do the small talk we just I sat him down is that here's your mic let's go and
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