Parenting and Porn with Erika Lust

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🗓️ 7 August 2025

⏱️ 73 minutes

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It’s time to talk about… PARENTING & PORN. What happens when your career is in porn — and you’re planning for parenthood? Florence is flying solo this week and sitting down with legendary erotic filmmaker Erika Lust for a juicy, no-holds-barred convo on raising kids in a world obsessed with sex but terrified of sexuality. From fighting censorship and dismantling shame to the nitty-gritty of how to actually talk to your kids about porn, we’re going deep into the messy, meaningful overlaps between pleasure, politics, and parenting. Erika shares her wisdom from 20+ years in the industry, why tech bros keep banning her, and how to raise informed, empowered (and media-literate) young people without freaking out over their screen time. Plus: ✨ Sex education that doesn’t suck ✨ Parenting through the porn panic ✨ Why pleasure is power — and why your kids need to hear that too Whether you're a parent, a porn-lover, or just a curious fker wondering how to raise a less fked-up generation, this one’s for you. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, squirm, or rethink your browser history — smash that five star, baby. Support the podcast + watch full episodes on Patreon: 👉 www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious @florencebark Podcast Produced by @bxsassy2 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Oh my God.
0:07.0	You're listening to Come Curious.
0:10.0	Being a parent in the porn industry with Erica Lust.
0:16.0	Welcome back to one of my solo episodes Curious Fuckers.
0:20.0	It is Florence here. And today we're delving into one of my solo episodes Curious Fuckers is Florence here. And today we're
0:22.2	delving into one of my favorite subjects, porn. As you know, I direct porn for Erica Lust. So this is
0:31.7	the special episode getting her on, especially to talk about what we're talking about today.
0:36.6	We're not only going to be talking about
0:38.9	parenting in porn, we're also going to be talking about the state of the porn industry now,
0:45.2	because there has been so much stuff going on politically. I mean, they're trying to ban porn in
0:52.8	America. They have banned porn in certain states of America
0:57.1	and God knows what else is going to happen over here. So where do we stand? Where do we stand
1:03.4	making cinematic, erotic films in this world that is closing in on us? And Erica Loss is the perfect person to talk to about that
1:14.4	since she has been in this industry for 20 years now. She did an amazing interview on Diary of the CEO,
1:23.5	where it was like a debate on whether you should ban porn. And she said some really, really
1:29.2	amazing points that I would love to bring up in this episode. Hopefully we'll get the chance to do that.
1:34.8	But also, as you know, I am on my own conceiving journey and as a porn director, I've started
1:42.3	having those questions in my head like, how am I going to talk to my
1:45.8	kids about what I do? How am I going to start talking to my kids about sex education? How am I
1:51.5	going to talk to my kids about porn? Luckily, Erica Loss has actually started a platform
1:55.4	called The Porn Conversation, which is about exactly this stuff. So she's the perfect person to bring on for this.
2:02.6	So I've rambled on about various different things that I want to talk about with her,
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