Jealousy Confessions: How to Stop Obsessing

Come Curious

Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 783 Ratings

🗓️ 14 August 2025

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Green-eyed monster? Babe, we’ve been there and this week, Florence and Reed are dragging jealousy out of the shadows and into the daylight. From obsessively stalking your ex’s new boo to side-eyeing your partner’s “just a friend,” we’re spilling our rawest confessions, messiest moments, and the tips that actually help you stop spiralling. We’re talking envy vs jealousy, ex etiquette, and why sometimes (don’t lie) you like it when your partner gets a bit possessive. Plus, how to handle friends who trigger you, why boundaries are inward not outward, and the little tricks that stop obsessive thoughts in their tracks. This isn’t just “don’t be jealous” nonsense - it’s honest, unfiltered, and yes, a bit unhinged. Whether you’re in a monogamous bubble, navigating non-monogamy, or still creeping your ex’s sister’s Instagram… this one’s for you, curious f**kers. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, cry, or rethink texting your ex at 2am - smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: 👉 https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious - slide into our DMs with questions, stories & voice notes! Follow Florence: @florencebark Follow Reed: @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Oh my God.
0:07.0	You're listening to Come Curious.
0:09.0	The Jealousy Confessions, How to Stop Obsessing.
0:17.0	It's a really interesting subject today.
0:19.0	Yeah, it's one of those ones where it's like, I know we need to talk about it, but I don't want to talk about it.
0:25.6	Listen.
0:26.6	I don't want to hold a mirror up to the ugly parts of myself.
0:31.6	I know. These are like the things that the cool girls never say.
0:35.6	Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's like, I'm perfect.
0:38.4	Like, no, bitch.
0:40.2	The best girlfriend ever slash ex-girlfriend ever.
0:44.5	And that's also fucking fake.
0:46.7	You're not human if you don't feel jealousy.
0:49.3	I swear to God.
0:50.9	Yes, 100%.
0:52.4	I always think that it's not going to get me and then it gets me.
0:55.0	When I got back into this relationship, I was surprised with my feelings, to say the least.
1:01.0	So yeah, we are going to get into some of our personal experiences around jealousy and also just give some tips and advice because both Florence and I have been in
1:11.5	the obsessive place before. It's very normal. We're here for you. We're here to hold your hand and
1:17.5	guide you through this. And hopefully by the end of this episode, you're not going to feel so bad
1:22.5	about feeling like a jealous motherfucking cow.
1:30.1	Yeah, let's just have fun with it.
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