Empowering Submissive Men with Saint Arson

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Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 783 Ratings

🗓️ 31 July 2025

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Summary

It’s time to talk about… SUBMISSIVE MEN. 😈 Florence and Reed are joined by the magnetic dominatrix, performer, and kink educator Saint Arson (aka Arson Leigh) to dive deep into a topic that’s still drenched in stigma: male submission. From the myths of masculinity to the power of being ass-up and emotionally available, this juicy episode unpacks what it means to be a submissive man - and why that might just be the sexiest kind of rebellion. They cover everything from how patriarchy has f*cked up our ideas of dominance, to how to approach your dom with actual respect, to the shame (and secret pleasure) many men carry when exploring submission. Plus: latex fetishes, bratting, massage seduction, and why being a good sub is more than just calling someone “mommy” (spoiler: don’t call her that). Whether you’re a domme-in-training, a submissive king in the making, or just curious about kink dynamics—this one’s for you, curious f**kers. 🎙️ Support Come Curious Keep us thriving, vibing, and kink-positive at patreon.com/comecurious ⭐ Rate & Review Feel seen? Feel empowered? Give us that 5-star, baby. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Oh my God.
0:05.0	You're listening to Come Curious.
0:09.0	Empowering submissive men.
0:12.0	Ooh, what a juicy episode we have for you today.
0:20.0	I actually can't wait for this one.
0:22.2	It's going to be so good and I feel like there are so many dudes out there and actually
0:27.7	all other genders that can benefit from listening to this empowering episode because
0:33.3	definitely.
0:34.5	During my dating sphere, I am noticing so many more men wanting to access the submissive side.
0:42.0	And there's a, I mean, I think everyone wants to give it a go, but there's so much like, it's so loaded.
0:48.3	Yeah.
0:48.9	There's just, there's just so much to talk about on this subject.
0:51.9	There's a lot to unravel.
0:53.6	We're going to be speaking to
0:54.9	Arson, which I haven't spoken to her before. I haven't met her properly. She's a professional
1:00.8	dominatrix and sometimes a porn performer. And she was on your film? Yeah, she's been in two
1:09.4	of my films now.
1:11.2	Oh, wow.
1:15.5	She was in Dark Desert Highway, and there's another one that's coming out towards the end of the year with her in.
1:17.9	She's just amazing.
1:30.4	I love her so much, and she just has, like, that she has the air of the dominatrix that, I don't know, it's just so, like, powerful. And, I don't know it's just so like powerful and um I don't know she's a very cool very cool person I like how she has in her bio fetish muse I thought that was right up your
1:36.9	street read yeah am I gonna fancy her Florence I mean I think everyone does I don't think
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