I'm Claire Fallon and I'm Emma Gray and this is Love to See It, an obsessively detailed

recap podcast about reality dating shows like The Bachelor and other pop culture that makes us laugh, cry, and curse the patriarchy.

We can't live with these shows and we can't live without them, but we can break down every juicy moment and unpack all the weird messages these shows send us about love, sex, and dating.

Welcome to Love to See It, a podcast about a show that makes women cry for fun and then just mocks them for being out of control, freakish women.

It is week five of Bachelor in Paradise, which emotionally feels like year 10 for me. But split week continues. The original women are just off continuing to weep in their fancy hotel, mostly ignoring their hot new dates.

While the original men continue to just party happily down at the beach with their new dates.

Here to sort through the gender politics and general meltdowns of another chaotic week in Paradise are Brooks, Sifrin and Erecia, Skidmore, Williams, co-hosts of the wonderful podcast, even the rich and rich and daily welcome.

Hi.

We're glad to be back.

We are so excited to have you back.

Thank you for doing the difficult labor of watching all four hours of trauma that we collectively endured on this week's paradise.

I feel like we got to just dive right in because there's so much to cover.

There is.

I mean, like we were saying before just Jacob stretching is going to be half hour in this podcast.

Exactly.

Exactly. And we're not even there yet.

Like we have to lace is still on the beach.

Jacob doesn't even get to stretch for a while.

Whenever we have one of these four hour episodes, I do all the notes and then I look back at the top and I'm like, that was this week.

I'm pretty sure that was two weeks ago.

Yeah.

So yes, lace is still on the beach.

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