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The Unfolding

Page 143: Kyle and Betty Mertens: After Experiencing Loss, Couple Helps Others Navigate Grief

The Unfolding

Northwestern Media

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.9867 Ratings

🗓️ 25 November 2022

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

If you have experienced a devastating loss, you may wonder how anyone could survive such debilitating grief. How do you live through that kind of sadness? That's what Kyle and Betty Mertens thought when they lost their one-year-old daughter Ella. They were drowning in grief, but they were determined to find a way through it with God. In the wake of their tragedy, they created a journal to keep their grief from pulling them apart.  Their experience gave them an unexpected expertise on grieving, and they suddenly found themselves helping others navigate loss.  Kyle and Betty are authors of the book, "Unraveled: When Loss Changes Everything."   

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Page 143 of the unfolding is the story of Kyle and Betty Mertons.

0:05.1

In that moment, the best way I can describe it is that it felt like I was sleeping and someone

0:10.7

needed to wake me up from a nightmare.

0:12.5

Like this cannot possibly be my reality.

0:15.6

There is no way that this has happened.

0:18.6

God's story has been unfolding.

0:21.8

Since the beginning of time.

0:24.8

He invites you to be a part of it.

0:31.2

Another page in the unfolding.

0:44.4

Hi, this is Meredith Foster.

0:47.0

If you've experienced a devastating loss,

0:50.7

you may wonder how anyone could survive such debilitating grief.

0:52.7

How do you live through that kind of sadness?

0:58.3

That's what Kyle and Betty Merton's thought when they lost their one-year-old daughter, Ella. They had God,

1:03.8

they had each other, but they were drowning in grief. They were also determined to find a way through it. Their experience gave them an unexpected expertise on grieving, and they suddenly

1:09.7

found themselves helping others navigate loss.

1:13.1

A word of caution about this episode, while this is a story of redemption and hope,

1:18.4

Kyle and Betty do share about their experience at the hospital the day they lost Ella,

1:22.6

and that part of their story might be especially difficult to hear if you've lost a loved one.

1:28.5

Kyle and I came from very different backgrounds. My family was always very religious growing up

1:35.8

in the best way. I mean, we had a very strong relationship with Jesus Christ and went to

1:43.0

actually Christian University and was very involved there.

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