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🗓️ 20 January 2020
⏱️ 16 minutes
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This week it's just me for a brief solo episode to hone in on some of the less obvious drivers of anxiety. I'm focusing particularly on social comparison here and in future episodes will look at imposter syndrome, perfectionism, people pleasing and the likes, all of which can enhance our levels of anxiety without us really being aware. Here I offer my practical approach to handling social comparison induced anxiety, what I've done to make it a whole lot easier and why temporal comparison is more motivating than social comparison will ever be.
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0:30.5 | Hello, dear listener, and welcome to owning it the anxiety podcast with me Caroline Forin, author of Owning It and the Confidence Kit, and my third book, which will be out in May |
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0:49.4 | podcast and I hope that you're finding a series helpful so far. I was just thinking to myself last week, |
0:54.3 | what a difference it would have made for me to have something like this when I was feeling really |
0:58.9 | bad and how much power and strength there is in knowing that so many people are going through |
1:05.3 | a similar thing. And I can only tell you the amount of messages I get, and I'm so grateful for them |
1:09.6 | from people saying what you're describing is exactly what I've been through or what I'm going through, and it |
1:14.9 | makes me feel so less alone. And I just think back to how unbelievably alone I felt and how like |
1:20.3 | an alien I felt back in 2014. So you're not alone. If you're listening and you're feeling |
1:26.1 | lost, you're not alone. I'm right there and you're feeling lost, you're not alone. |
1:28.4 | I'm right there with you. |
1:30.4 | And everyone who's listening is right there with you. |
1:32.8 | So this week, it's just me. |
1:34.7 | I just wanted to do a little solo episode as I wanted to take some time out |
1:36.9 | to consider some of the less obvious drivers of anxiety |
1:40.5 | that, again, I know had I been aware of them |
1:43.9 | back when I was feeling the full weight |
1:45.6 | of it in 2014-2015 I think things would have been an awful lot easier to handle. |
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