Oversharing (w/ Yvie Oddly & Ryan Mitchell)
Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Headgum & Nicole Byer
4.8 • 15.6K Ratings
🗓️ 5 December 2025
⏱️ 68 minutes
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Summary
Drag Race winner Yvie Oddly (season 11) and co-host Ryan Mitchell (HIGHKEY!) join Nicole to overshare.
Yvie discusses her reaction to Ariana Grande naming her a favorite, her thoughts on the internet's response to her season of Drag Race, the details of her open relationship, and getting stretched out by a didgeridoo. Ryan shares his history of dating terrible men, getting cheated on 7 times, and the time he followed a stranger to a hotel for a hookup that could’ve been a murder. They all discuss the craziest things a hookup has said while they were inside you, the hottest kind of dirty talk, and whether the Simpsons are Black. We had a wild time. Tune in!
For more Yvie and Ryan, check out their podcast, HIGHKEY! Available on YouTube as well.
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| 0:00.0 | Want to watch this episode? |
| 0:01.3 | Catch the full video on YouTube. |
| 0:03.3 | Just hit the link in the episode description. |
| 0:07.1 | This is a headgum podcast. |
| 0:10.8 | I can take a black guy as long as I stretch before him. |
| 0:15.3 | How are you stretching? |
| 0:16.9 | With like a speculum? |
| 0:18.3 | I honestly should. |
| 0:19.5 | Drink it? |
| 0:20.0 | Even as a kid, like when I got curious about my butthole, it went straight from finger into didgeridoo. |
| 0:25.7 | Like I realized that was the first foreign object inside me. |
| 0:29.4 | Oh, what's a didgeridoo? |
| 0:30.8 | It is a long thing that's like, oh. |
| 0:34.6 | Oh, it's like a instrument? |
| 0:37.2 | Or did you actually put a didgeridoo inside of you? |
| 0:39.8 | Ha ha. |
| 0:40.1 | That's funny. |
| 0:40.7 | You better believe I didgerid, girl. |
| 0:46.9 | Why won't you date me? |
| 0:49.1 | Why won't you date me? |
| 0:50.9 | Why won't you date me? |
| 0:52.9 | Please... |
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