Welcome back to the female dating strategy, the meanest female only podcast on the internet.

I'm your host, Patricia.

And today I'm joined by a very special guest.

Sophia.

Yes.

Sophia is protected by her pseudonym, protected with anonymity.

Because today we are starting the barbecue season we are firing up those

grills and we're going to have our first roast as crude of the season a long time tradition

and today we're roasting a philosopher so right off the bat never date a philosopher that's

that's one thing absolutely right

would you like to bring us in to to the horror story or to what happened to how do i summarize

well you don't have to summarize we have time i met a guy right we met at met at the burn decompression party and he was really impressive in the

beginning. Like I was like very, very emotionally aware, like very talkative, like lots of long

messages and expressing like his intentions and intentionality in

generally is a good thing right so I was like wow this is really this is really hot but

eventually it just like took over and like if you have to read like books of messages every day

like five page essays on every single question that you ask.

And like, yeah, having someone who just totally overrides your boundaries and you have to negotiate

your boundaries, because everything needs to be negotiated with someone who's that intellectual

and this much in his mind, that became quite exhausting relatively quickly.

Yes, and we were just talking before the recording that basically a value that a man is adding to your life is only subjective to you.

Is your life better because of his presence in them or not?

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