Welcome back to the female dating strategy, the meanest female only podcast on the internet, or it was last time we checked. I'm your host Rose. And I'm Patricia. I'm not sure that we're the meanest anymore, but yeah, there are a lot of other mean ones out there right now. Yeah, I was thinking about it. Like, are we still as unapologetic as the OGs? I don't know. But today we're going to be

meaner than usual because we're going to talk about basically shaming men for the good of society.

Yeah, it's for the good of society. It's for the greater good, okay? And it's also for our good. So shaming is a

useful tool and we should use it to impose social norms. And this came about because last time,

well, for those who haven't listened, I had like an unpleasant incident while taking a flight

that the guy next to me did like a whole charade to look at my boob and made me uncomfortable

in like all kinds of like microways. And then at the end, what I was sharing with Rose offline

is that eventually like when there was not a long time left for the flight and I was like

really already pissed off and everything that I told myself about like don't fall into his game,

you're better than that. I did not feel better than that. And what did I do? I just looked at him.

I looked at him for like a whole second and a half. And mind you, he's sitting

right next to me. So it was like a very invasive look. He did not look at me. He was like

pretending to read his book. But I definitely made him very uncomfortable. And as a retort, he let out

a very silent but deadly fart it smelled awful i immediately got up

and i told him you sir have no class and i basically didn't go back to my seat amazing all caps

clap right there like and when you told me this i went off with joy i like

went off like a sparkling candle because one of my secret weapons in life that has really

behooved me in many social situations is my subtle but uh it's subtle, it's stealthy, but it's also deadly use of shame.

I absolutely endorse and believe in the power, the redemptive power of shaming.

In fact, I think a lot of what's going wrong with society right now is the utter shamelessness that's happened, especially with like the rise of social media and wanting to be a reality star or a TikToker or an influencer.

All of it is about this really sort of shameless behavior being rewarded.

And it has led to the deterioration of civility.

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