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We Met At Acme

Overcoming Our Bad Dating Patterns ft. Christian Gonzalez

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.22.4K Ratings

🗓️ 11 April 2021

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I am virtually joined by Dr. G aka Christian Gonzalez from Heal Thy Self Podcast. We discuss overcoming bad dating patterns, fear of being alone, dating when you've experienced loss, distracting ourselves from feeling pain, jumping from one relationship to another, does someone bring out a bad side of you or is it already there, what we're seeking is inside of us, why someone shouldn't be your better half/complete you, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss feeling like you’re in a more mature place than friends, why my BF didn’t kiss me on our first date, judging someone based on their social media, “The One” show on Netflix, and being too picky.

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Produced by Dear Media

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a DR Media Production.

0:06.4

Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It Acme. I am really excited for this episode. We had

0:12.7

been getting feedback that you guys really want more male perspective. And so Christian is awesome.

0:20.1

He's got a lot to say. He's really wise. And I'm really excited for you to listen to it.

0:26.2

I just have to say before we get into it, I just finished listening not to like cross talk about

0:32.4

other podcasts, but I just finished listening to the Justin McLeod. I think that's how you

0:39.5

pronounce his name, episode of How I Built This. And he's the CEO of Hinge. We actually did a live

0:47.9

show. And Justin was one of the panelists. He was incredible. And it's on our Patreon. You can

0:53.7

go to patreon.com slash We Met It Acme. If you haven't listened to it yet. But this episode was so

0:59.9

much more in depth with Justin and his life and his love story. I highly recommend it. It really,

1:06.4

it was actually recommended to me by you guys when I asked like best episodes of other podcasts.

1:12.1

And it was really amazing. And I just want to say like at the end, he said, you know, Guy Razz,

1:18.7

who's the host was like, what is the takeaway here? Like what is something, you know, after hearing

1:25.2

your story and whatever, you know, he was like, you went through a lot of hard times, right? Because he

1:32.0

Justin got sober. He like had issues with drugs and alcohol. He lost his love of his life at one

1:37.9

point. He got hit her back. But you'll hear that. If you listen. And then he almost like failed

1:43.9

to at building this app. And so Guy, the host was like, you know, what's, what's the struggle?

1:50.8

Like what's the bottom line here? And Justin said something really wise. And he was like, it's not

1:55.9

what happens to you. You know, it's how you react to it. And I just want to emphasize that so much.

2:01.6

Like bad things happen to so many people. A lot of people are in really bad situations. But

2:07.7

you could take that and you can make it a positive by how you react to it. So I just wanted to

2:13.6

emphasize that that was a really good episode and just really amazing. I'm going to answer some

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