Overcoming Depression And Dating Again w/ Dr. Stephen Ilardi
Women's Dating And Confidence Podcast
Amber Grubenmann
4.8 • 525 Ratings
🗓️ 11 January 2022
⏱️ 96 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence Podcast. My name is Amber, and today I have a very |
| 0:15.9 | special episode for you. I interviewed author, neuroscientist, and psychologist, Dr. Stephen Allardy. |
| 0:24.3 | He wrote one of my all-time favorite books called The Depression Cure, and he cured my |
| 0:30.8 | depression with that book. And I do talk a little bit about that, of course, in the interview |
| 0:37.2 | that's going to be following. |
| 0:39.2 | But one thing I did just want to clarify before we get into things is that my depression was really severe when I found his book. |
| 0:48.7 | And I had tried many solutions that didn't work for me or didn't work long term. |
| 0:55.2 | And I was at the point where I was severely depressed, suicidal, and felt debilitated by depression. |
| 1:05.0 | And at the same time, I don't think a lot of people around me could tell. |
| 1:10.3 | And so one thing I really wanted to clarify before we get into this is, first of all, I've |
| 1:15.9 | never been so happy in my life so consistently for such a long time. |
| 1:22.1 | And I just think that's really important to say because when I was depressed and seeking out solutions, |
| 1:30.4 | there was this weird feeling of like, first of all, looking at healthy, happy people and thinking they're lying. |
| 1:37.0 | Like, thinking like, nobody's like actually happy, right? |
| 1:40.5 | Like, we all kind of hate being here. |
| 1:43.0 | And secondarily, just generally thinking it wasn't |
| 1:48.1 | really possible for people to recover or heal from depression. Like, I felt like I didn't get a lot of |
| 1:54.9 | exposure to people who fully recovered from depression. It was more like, yeah, I was depressed and now I'm taking |
| 2:02.2 | medication, but I'm still kind of fighting it and keeping it at bay every day. And so that was the |
| 2:08.7 | common theme that I heard. And I didn't get a lot of exposure to stories of people completely |
| 2:14.7 | healing from depression and just feeling normal and content and having normal |
| 2:21.2 | emotional reactions to things, which is how I feel now. So I, first of all, if you're depressed, |
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