Part of my origin story is I didn't know I was enough and so I worked my ass off obsessively

uncommonly so to be good enough for who it wasn't for me but it was like me trying to feel okay

being okay I had to show I was smart I had to show I was competent I had to show that you know

I could figure things out all those were helpful but they cost me at one level you know intimacy

with myself and intimacy with my wife welcome back we're welcome to another ask me anything on

fighting mastery the ever insightful and entertaining O'Neill sespinus is back to cohost this month's

AMA and per usual we have real fun diving into your questions chatting about what to do if you're

feeling burnout and overworked grappling with the need to prove yourself to others how to build

culture and hire appropriately the difference between high performance and mastery feeling like

you're behind in life and one question that you want are you a thermostat or thermometer all that

and more is coming your way right now on volume eight of finding masteries ask me anything okay O'Neill

we're back back how you been I'm doing well actually really well what do you been up to okay I

got a dilemma actually so I have been up to a lot of things but my mom she got a she got a dog

and she didn't know what kind of dog it was my mom's not really good shout out to you mom

if you watching this nothing against you my mom's not really good at taking care of dogs and

so I said you'll take the dog to the vet find out what kind of dog it is it's a much

so she takes the dog to the vet you know a couple weeks go by and whatever so I call her and I'm

like so kind of dog is it she's like oh you know they say it's something like a um a cane

corso and a mast if mix whatever those two things are right so I'm like that's not a small dog mom

yeah this is a cane corso mast it makes you like yeah I was like mom do you know both of those

dogs are huge both of those dogs mixed are huge you're I was like you can't handle this type of

dog so she's like okay well why don't you take the dog take the dog off my hands and y'all yeah so

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