Our Marriage Rules: It's Not 50/50. Even With Stepkids Stuff.
The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast
Jamie Scrimgeour
4.9 • 723 Ratings
🗓️ 15 December 2025
⏱️ 40 minutes
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Summary
Darren and I have worked hard to find a relationship structure that works well for us, and it's definitely not 50/50.
Today we'll unpack our marriage rules. You'll hear why '100/100' works for us, how we arrange responsibilities and schedules based around the fact that Darren is the breadwinner, why running our home like a business has made all of the difference, and how we navigate moments when we don't agree on how to handle something.
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| 0:00.0 | Okay, I need to tell you guys something I've been working on on the side. |
| 0:03.5 | When I started my blog 11 years ago, it was literally just me at my kitchen table writing |
| 0:08.8 | whatever was on my mind. No business, no strategy, just raw thoughts from a 27-year-old stepmom |
| 0:15.0 | trying to figure life out. And then it grew into this entire world. Coaching, digital products, podcasts, successful business, all of it. |
| 0:24.3 | And I'm so proud of this. |
| 0:26.2 | But over time, my writing has shifted from an online journal to a how to step mom manual. |
| 0:31.6 | Everything is optimized. |
| 0:33.1 | Everything has a purpose. |
| 0:34.9 | And now that I've turned 40, I've been craving this space where I can be |
| 0:39.4 | unfiltered again, a place to talk about what's really happening behind the scenes, how we're |
| 0:44.3 | navigating the holidays with adult stepkids, what still bothers me in stepmom life, even after a |
| 0:49.1 | decade of doing this work, how I'm healing my relationship with my mom, how I'm finding myself |
| 0:54.1 | again, the messy |
| 0:55.2 | middle of entrepreneurship, navigating health in my 40s, the friendship shifts that no one prepares |
| 1:01.1 | you for, stuff I don't really feel like sharing on Instagram or anywhere in public. |
| 1:06.9 | I want a space where the trolls don't lurk, where women who creep and screenshot will have to |
| 1:12.2 | subscribe if they want to watch. A space that feels safe, real and human. And that space is my substack. |
| 1:20.1 | I'm already sharing things there that I have never said out loud before, the real conversations, |
| 1:24.6 | the things I'm unpacking real time, and the stuff I won't post on |
| 1:28.5 | Instagram. If you want deeper connection or you just want behind the scenes, if you want the real |
| 1:32.9 | version of this new chapter, come join me. Subscribe to my substack. The link is in the show notes |
| 1:38.1 | or just search Jamie Scrimger on the substack app and you will see me come up. Let's do this. |
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