What is the due date? I think the date should probably be the 29th. What do you mean? Because remember I kind of read my period app wrong. Is this your last baby? I think we got another one in there. What? We're not going to rush into any decisions right now. I just am not ready to like process formally closing that chapter. Do you have a name picked out? We really saw it on our boy name. I thought we don't know either name. Okay, so never mind. We don't have the name. We don't have the name.

How do you control not gaining a a name picked out. We're really solid on our boy name. I thought we don't know either name. Okay, so never mind.

We don't have the name. We don't have the name. How do you control not gaining excessive weight? Are you worried about postpartum depression? Would you do a homebirth? Twins? Question mark? Question mark? Hey, real quick, before we get into this episode, Did you know that most of our viewers aren't even subscribed?

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everybody to the unplanned podcast. Guys, Abby is now through the first trimester officially.

Woo! She officially did it. High five. That wasn't so bad. I was about to say something about like us being

pregnant, but I realized like does that bug you? No, I like it when people say, like, when you say we're pregnant or like, we're having a baby or like, I like that because I'm like, I don't want to do this alone. Because I saw TikTok the other day about how stupid that is because like people will say we're pregnant, but then like the wife is the one doing all the work. And then I started to feel guilty. I'm like, man, I need to stop staying. We're pregnant. It probably depends on the woman. What matters more is what you think and less what other people think, right? I feel like I can see where they're coming from, but also, like, maybe that's someone that like doesn't have a lot of support from their partner. This is definitely an us thing. Like, you're having to make adjustments because it's pregnancy. Obviously, I'm not going to downplay. I'm doing, I'm doing the most. You are doing the most. I'm doing the brunt of the work here.

So you feel supported is what it's pregnancy. Obviously, I'm not going to downplay. I'm doing the most.

You're doing the most. I'm doing the brunt of the work here. But you feel supported is what it sounds like. Yeah, I feel very supported. And I feel like if I said I was pregnant, I would feel like, oh my gosh, this is such a big heavy thing. I can't imagine doing this all alone. Like, I feel really glad that we're

pregnant. You're both, like, you're filling in

for me in so many ways and... You heard there

folks. Everybody has a different opinion on that, and that is okay. Yeah, I mean, that's what makes the world go around, right? One thing that bothers somebody. Might make somebody else happy. I feel good about it. Abby put up a question box on her Instagram story. Ask some questions about baby number three,

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