Our Best Tips for Initiating Sex
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
4.7 • 885 Ratings
🗓️ 4 February 2020
⏱️ 31 minutes
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Summary
About this episode
We all want to be wanted, and our husbands are no exception. Initiating sex is a great way to communicate "I want you" to your husband, but it isn't always easy.
- Why do wives sometimes find it difficult to even try to initiate sex?
- Some wives report that they do try to initiate sex but their husbands don't seem to pick up on the signals. What is going on?
- What are some things wives can do to initiate sex and get things rolling?
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From the Bible
What does God have to say about initiating?
Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside,
let us spend the night in the villages.
Let us go early to the vineyards
to see if the vines have budded,
if their blossoms have opened,
and if the pomegranates are in bloom—
there I will give you my love.
The mandrakes send out their fragrance,
and at our door is every delicacy,
both new and old,
that I have stored up for you, my beloved.
Song of Songs 7:11-13
Resources
You're Not Kissing Enough – Hot, Holy & Humorous
40 Ways to Initiate Sex with Your Husband – Hot, Holy & Humorous
5 Ways to Initiate Sex with Your Spouse – Hot, Holy & Humorous
Flip the Switch from Initiation to Availability – Hot, Holy & Humorous
How Do You Initiate Sex ? – The Forgiven Wife
When You Initiate, Do This – The Forgiven Wife
10 Ideas You Can Use to Initiate Sex – The Forgiven Wife
He Wants a Wild-Cat in Bed. That's Not Me. - Bonny's OysterBed7
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives. |
| 0:12.0 | We're four marriage and sex bloggers discuss the naked truth. |
| 0:16.0 | What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriage? |
| 0:20.0 | I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. |
| 0:22.7 | I'm Chris Taylor from The Forgiven Wife. |
| 0:24.9 | I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy. |
| 0:27.7 | I'm Bonnie Burns of Oyster Bed 7. Welcome back to sex chat for Christian wives. |
| 0:44.7 | And I'm going to do something really radical tonight. |
| 0:47.0 | And I'm going to start off by reading some scripture from Song of Songs 7 versus 11 to 13. Come beloved let us go to the countryside let us spend the night in the villages |
| 1:00.1 | let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded if their blossoms have opened and if the |
| 1:06.3 | pomegranates are in bloom there i will give you my. The mandrakes sent out their fragrance and at |
| 1:13.0 | our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. |
| 1:17.8 | The bride in Song of Songs had no problem inviting her husband to have some sexy time. |
| 1:23.2 | Sometimes wives these days do find it a little difficult to try to initiate sex and invite their husbands into the bedroom. |
| 1:30.6 | So we're going to start off with talking a little bit about why wives sometimes find it difficult. |
| 1:36.4 | So what do you think, ladies? |
| 1:37.8 | Well, I believe one of the things that a lot of women internalize is the idea that initiating sex makes you too forward. |
| 1:49.7 | Like you are not supposed to be the one. |
| 1:51.8 | Like, okay, this is going to sound ancient to some of our listeners, but I grew up in a household |
| 1:57.1 | where I was not allowed to call boys. |
| 2:01.0 | Me neither. |
| 2:01.9 | Oh, yeah. |
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