Hey, Wendy here. This month we're playing our science versus greatest hits album. Yeah.

You're voted for your favorite science versus episodes of all time and we are busting them out.

Today we have the winner of the sex category. Battling it out where our episodes on sex addiction,

heartbreak, online dating, the runner up was the fertility cliff, which we heard people made babies

because of that episode. So hey, hey, science versus babies out there, but it didn't win the

clear winner of the sex category. The episode which came out on top was orgasms. So without

further ado, here's that episode. This is the show that hits facts against feeling good.

On today's show, orgasms. So I guess I'll tell you about the first orgasm I experience.

You want to just like dive into this like straight ahead or are we going to circle back or what?

Let's circle back for a sec. This is Malika Grant. She grew up in Ghana and now lives in South Africa.

And Malika runs a blog about the sex lives of women in Africa. It's called Adventures from the

Bedrooms of African Women. And one of the reasons that Malika started this is because growing up,

the women around her weren't talking about how to have orgasms. It was like this big mystery.

Because I had so little education around sex and what to expect, I thought an orgasm was supposed to

look and feel one way like, you know, the shuttering on, you know, in the movies and, you know, in the

screaming. But for Malika, throughout her 20s, she never felt like that when she was having sex.

The guys who she'd have sex with, they would orgasm no worries. But for her, it just didn't happen.

No matter how hard some of her partners tried, you know, I had one partner that just did

everything in his power. He was like flipping me up this way and turning me back that way and,

you know, going harder and going softer. And so finally, I was just like, oh, here I come. And so

I start to like vibrate and shutter and go, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom. And he was like,

what are you doing? I'm like, I'm coming. But I wasn't. And so it was like, I was really trying to

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