Write down a piece of paper, the people you spend the most time with.

Then look at it and score them on positivity and negativity.

If they're the most positive, they're 10.

If they're negative, they're a one the most.

And anything in between. Look at it and spend less time with the people

that have low scores you are the byproduct of the positivity and the

negativity that you consume the end, I referenced it.

Candor was a real challenge for me.

You know, my mom is not super candorous.

My dad is incredibly candorous,

but he delivered it in such a negative way

that I think I demonized the value of candor.

I was able to 95% of the time successfully figure it out without candor, which is a very high ratio, I just got to the point of my

life where the 5% didn't feel good enough anymore. You know, I just kind of like there was a Facebook group of former employees talking negatively about me and I was just like this shouldn't be I don't care about the money. I love people like like this shouldn't be.

And I'm like, the only thing I do poorly

is I don't give people critical feedback

and it fucks it up.

And I'm like, I gotta stop.

And I've really worked on myself.

How are you able to do that?

By suffocating myself.

By acknowledging it, right?

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