This is Love Life and I'm your host, Matthew Hussie.

It's so exciting to hear feedback from women who say things like,

Matt, I tried the advice from your podcast and I met someone incredible that same night.

But occasionally I'll hear something like, when something finally starts to go right in my life,

I have trouble trusting that it's real and I just can't enjoy it.

If you can relate, I want you to stay tuned until the end of today's show

because there's something really exciting I want to share with you that has the power to change your way of thinking forever.

But first, let's get to the episode.

I have an interesting subject for you today, which is based around conversation,

but a particular problem that I have actually found myself having somewhat recently with conversation.

I've been on a bit of a book high recently where I've been reading a lot of different books

but wouldn't be the normal sorts of books that I think people would just pick up in their day today.

It's not like the latest novel.

It's historic books, books that are about science or you name it, all different things.

One of the difficult parts of that is that what you've just been doing that day,

if you've been reading a book like that, isn't necessarily relevant to anybody else when you go out that evening.

So what you find is the things that are immediately on your mind couldn't be the furthest things from everybody else's mind.

And what you think should actually be a helpful thing in conversation and you know me,

I've been the first to say, if you want more to say, read more.

But at the same time, the adverse effect it can have is that you feel like I've got all these things to say and no one cares.

So where did my thing congratulate you?

Well, I began to realize that there are two things you can really do in a conversation.

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