The Fertia.

Don't make the same mistake Cassie made in her relationship.

My husband and I are under a lot of stress right now.

We have a lot of stuff going on.

As do like all couples, There's always something in your

relationship in your life whether you're stressed out at work, whatever. Right now we are

out of our house because a tree fell through our roof and I'm just really busy at work and he's taking care of like

the car claims and the house claims and dealing with all that stuff and the kids and

we're both just stressed out the kids aren't sleeping well so we're having to

sleep with them every single night

and they're waking up multiple times throughout the night. A new environment out of the

routine yeah. Yeah and they were scared the tree was scary. It shook the whole house so

they're scared of going to sleep and I'm only sharing this

to paint a picture of how we're very distracted right now and we don't even have

time to connect in the evenings anymore because when the kids go to bed we have to go to

bed because they won't go to sleep without

us. Yeah you guys usually schedule ignoring each other. Yes. Now it's more spontaneous.

We usually have about an hour at least before I go to bed but you know and you can come at me for co-sleeping my kids are

four and two whatever this is what they need right now and so that's why we're

doing it. They are scared they need reassurance but it is draining on us and we're in this new Airbnb and of course so that

means if we get our own time to ourselves we really like sort of I guess bend inward and do our own thing like Candy Crush Escape, Reading, Video

Game, because we just need to check out for a little tiny bit. It's not that we don't

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