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If I've been ghosted by someone I really liked and there was never really an official closure given, should I give up on the person?

Man, I tell you what, everyone, if you haven't been ghosted,

it's coming.

You're going to get ghosted.

Everybody has that person that just, that unicorn, right?

That person, like, you like them more than they like you for some reason,

and you try to play it cool like oh it's all good

I'll see what happened but inside your heart you're like I really like him a lot I hope it works out

like but you're just trying to play it cool right even Rojo and Ken have been there right we've all same way. The most important thing, who here would prefer people be honest with you or lie to you?

Raise your hand for honesty. Like, if you want people to be one thou-out percent honest with you,

okay? I've never known anyone. Now, Grant, there are certain situations where you're like, okay,

I may want to be lied to in certain situations, but usually speaking, there's no one that says,

you know what, I'm looking for someone to date

or someone to be my friend that's going to lie to me and stab me in the back. That's usually not

the case. So how you could be honest to yourself, because now let's get deep for a second,

the person that you're going to have a hard time being honest with sometimes is you.

If you have feelings for someone, even though it wasn't a real serious thing, and they kind of ghosted you, you could just sit there and take that L and act like it doesn't bother you.

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