Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder (Follow Up #1)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 28 February 2022
⏱️ 31 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, deserve listeners. This is a follow up to my deep dive on obsessive, |
| 0:03.5 | compulsive personality disorder, which was for patrons only. I asked people to |
| 0:08.4 | email in their response to the deep dive, talking about their own experiences |
| 0:12.5 | with the personality disorder. And I thought I would read those emails. So I'm |
| 0:17.3 | going to read a bunch of emails. Then we're going to go to a patron only zone |
| 0:21.6 | and continue reading emails. Let's get to it. My name is Dr. Kirk Honda. I'm a |
| 0:25.2 | therapist and a professor. And this first email is from anonymous annual |
| 0:30.3 | patron. They write, I related so much to your description of obsessive, |
| 0:34.5 | compulsive personality disorder. It feels like I can see certain patterns I've |
| 0:38.6 | had my entire life much more clearly now. For me, it's definitely rooted in |
| 0:43.0 | shame and being terribly hor- being treated horribly for being flawed and in |
| 0:48.2 | perfect as a young child. PS, I've looked through this message several times |
| 0:52.9 | and edited it because I worry about mistakes. Smiley face. Right. There were a |
| 0:57.8 | number of people that actually emailed in with that, you know, joke that is |
| 1:03.5 | kind of true, saying that because of their relational traumas regarding |
| 1:09.6 | criticism and being made to feel imperfect and flawed, being made to feel |
| 1:14.3 | ashamed, that one of the ways it can manifest is perfection and one of the |
| 1:19.2 | ways perfection can manifest is when you're sending an email, you need the |
| 1:23.7 | email to be perfect. And so people would write out the email and then rewrite |
| 1:29.4 | it or edit it several times before sending it away. When of course, I'm not |
| 1:34.0 | going to grade people. I'm just a humble podcaster. And if there are some typos |
| 1:39.0 | here and there, it doesn't bother me at all. But, and I'm sure the emailers |
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