Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence Podcast. My name is Amber, and today we're

going to be talking about questions to ask yourself if you're not sure if you want kids.

Before we get into that,

I want to share with you my free guide called copy and paste texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky. The link for that is going to be in the show notes and in the link in the bio

of my Instagram page. In the link of the bio of my Instagram page,

you can also find another link to schedule a free 15-minute coaching session with me,

and you can ask me any question that you have around dating or confidence during that time.

Okay, so today we're talking about you, if you are unsure about having kids. So a little bit

of backstory for me. I was in a relationship with somebody who really wanted kids, and I had

never really considered it in a serious way before because I had never been with somebody

who was actively bringing up the conversation of having kids and the timeline around that

and expectations around that. So I started to think more about it. And the conclusion that I

eventually came to was that I didn't want to have kids. And of course,

like everybody so quickly wants to tell me, that could change. And I don't mind sharing that on

this podcast. I'll let you know later if it changes. But right now, and for at least the last,

like, two years, I have not wanted to have kids and I felt

pretty certain about that so it was a struggle to come to that realization because there does tend to be

a bias from other people to push you towards wanting to have them.

Or like if you share that you're unsure,

it goes more towards like arguments for having them

or that you probably will want them at some point.

And so it's really difficult to hear your own voice with this question. So I wanted to share some questions with you

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