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Hello. My father had a number of well-developed

aversions. He thoroughly disliked God and all his alleged works had no time at all for international cuisine, foreign muck, and positively detested the Freemasons.

This last aversion was based on the belief that it was his failure to join the masons who predominated in the upper echelons of the company for which he worked that had cost him his job.

It was for this reason that he always urged me to aim for a position where

success at exams and tests counted more than social connections, where what

you know, Lawrence, counts for more than who you know. Well I suppose back in those days he was

much in tune with those other naive meritocratic optimists who thought that ability would

eventually triumph over nepotism and networking. But he failed to recognize the sheer variety of ways

in which the middle class could overturn or subvert any such egalitarian hopes. Here's Social

Anthropologist Jillian Evans on Radio 4's analysis.

What interests me is what happens to those who fail at school.

Their trajectory in is to make sure that a failure in conventional academic life will still reproduce middle class status.

I begin to see being middle class as a kind of apprenticeship.

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