Nobody Talks About This #779
Sexy Marriage Radio
Dr Corey and Pam Allan
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 6 May 2026
⏱️ 33 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore into the complex reality of sexual lust, shame, and the unseen battles that many marriages face, especially those with a history of hypersexuality, trauma, or previous infidelity.
This conversation explores what wives and husbands can do when confronting the persistent mental and emotional remnants of past struggles.
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We keep going into the exploration of what we can do with our history and how it impacts our present. But that very process can also be something that creates a much closer marriage than we thought possible.
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| 0:00.0 | So to set the stage for today's episode, this is going to be kind of a coffee conversation |
| 0:06.3 | with the depth of the way I want to go through some of the content today. |
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| 0:39.7 | We want everybody to know. |
| 0:45.8 | But as we transition into the show, this is a long email. |
| 0:53.0 | And I think it's worth going through the whole email because to help set the stage of what we're going to be talking about because this is one of those |
| 0:54.3 | here in short order we've had emails come in with things and with topics that we've not |
| 1:00.2 | necessarily headed down that path and explored even more in depth and so here's another one |
| 1:06.8 | that just came in from a wife that I'm just going to jump into the email and then questions |
| 1:14.0 | to come to your mind. We'll just kind of roll through this. All right, Pam? Perfect. So I've |
| 1:18.3 | listened to a lot of podcasts and I read a lot of books and I've never heard this issue addressed. |
| 1:23.1 | So I knew if anyone would and they would do it honestly, wisely, and frankly, it would be you guys. |
| 1:27.8 | So thank you for that. |
| 1:30.0 | We've been married 28 years, and we're on the beauty end of the ashes from a marriage crisis that hit us a few years ago. |
| 1:37.1 | Part of that was rooted in my husband's hidden his hypersexuality history, beginning when he was a child with porn and a sexual encounter with a girl |
| 1:45.0 | his age, an intense struggle with lust that he kept hidden, and also minimized or outright lied to me |
| 1:51.3 | about along through our history. He rarely acted out, and then unbeknownst to me, won a struggle |
| 1:56.3 | with porn early in our marriage, but the struggle with lust was unrelenting, intense, real, and fed so much |
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