Hey everyone, before we begin, I just want to remind you to please check out my new

No Bad Kids Master course.

You can find out all about it at nobadkidscourse.com.

Hi, this is Janet Landsbury and welcome to Unreffold.

This week I'm responding to a question from a mom who feels that her four-year-old suffers

from insecurity and a lack of self-confidence and a fear of failure.

And she blames herself for controlling his play life throughout his infancy and toddlerhood.

And she feels like she has failed her boy.

Before I begin, I want to remind everyone that both of my books, No Bad Kids and Elevating

Child Care are available on audio at audible.com and in paperback at Amazon and in e-book

at Amazon, Barnes & Noble and Apple.com.

Parenting can be physically and mentally exhausting.

It's all consuming, right?

Yes, we love this work, but we're always on call.

We can so much.

We really have a moment to think about our own well-being.

Most of the time we're making it up as we go along.

There's no road map, so we have to set our own boundaries to find balance in our lives.

If you're feeling overwhelmed, therapy can help.

I've used therapy from time to time, and it's allowed me to take a step back, regain

some clarity and confidence, and eventually become a better version of myself.

If you're thinking of starting therapy, give better help, but try.

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