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No One is Self-Made | What Expensive Things Cost

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Business, 694393, Society & Culture, Daily Stoic, Stoic, Education, Ryan Holiday, Philosophy, Stoic Philosophy, Stoicism, Self-improvement

4.55.3K Ratings

🗓️ 4 March 2024

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

Marcus Aurelius opens Meditations reflecting upon what he has learned from various influential individuals in his life. It’s titled “Debts and Lessons,” and the 17 entries spanning nine pages and more than 2,000 words make up nearly 10% of the entire book! Marcus writes with the humility of someone in the final act of their life taking stock of how lucky they are to be where they are.

It’s beautiful. And it totally dispenses with the notion of the "self-made man," the idea that someone got somewhere all on their own. Marcus knew he was a product of so many mentors, influencers, advisors and teachers. Debt is the operative word in that title—he owed them so much.

When we talked to Arnold Schwarzenegger on a recent episode of the Daily Stoic podcast, he talked about this very idea (in fact, he references how inspired he was by Meditations in the final chapter of his fantastic new book Be Useful). Because on the surface Arnold Schwarzenegger’s remarkable life story is a classic example of that idea of the “self-made man.” Born and raised in a small village in Austria, seemingly on his own sheer will and determination, Arnold achieved extraordinary success in the worlds of bodybuilding, acting, business and politics, ultimately becoming a global icon.


P.S. “I have always learned more from my failures and therefore I was never afraid of failure,” Arnold Schwarzenegger said while on the Daily Stoic podcast. The ultimate example in the power of hard work and perseverance, Arnold shared his wisdom in being useful while you still can, how to transform your liabilities into assets, and tips to best nurture both your mind and body. This episode is full of nuggets you can directly apply to your life so be sure to check it out. And for more of Arnold’s uniquely earnest, blunt, and potent insight, pick up his new book Be Useful: Seven Tools For Life, available over at the Painted Porch!

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And in today's excerpt from The Daily Stoic Journal, Ryan examines the Stoic idea that expensive things cost more to us than their dollar value by reflecting on a recent situation in his life.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast. Each day we bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stoics,

0:09.8

illustrated with stories from history, current events and literature to help you be better at what you do.

0:15.0

And at the beginning of the week, we try to do a deeper dive, setting a kind of stoic intention for the week, something to meditate on,

0:22.5

something to think on,

0:24.1

something to leave you with, to journal about

0:26.4

whatever it is you happen to be doing.

0:28.7

So let's get into it. No one is self-made.

0:37.0

No one is self-made.

0:41.0

Marcus release opens meditations reflecting upon what he has learned from various influential individuals in his life.

0:47.0

It's titled Deaths in Lessons, and the 17 entries spanning 9 pages in more than 2,000 words make up nearly 10% of the entire book.

0:55.9

Marcus Aurelius writes with the humility of someone in the final act of their life taking

1:00.0

stock about how lucky they are to be where they are. And it's beautiful. It totally dispenses

1:06.1

with the notion of the self-made man, the idea that someone got somewhere all on their own.

1:11.6

Marcus Aurelius knew that he was a product of so many

1:14.2

mentors, influencers, advisors, and teachers and debt is the operative word in

1:19.2

that title. He owed them so much.

1:23.0

When we talked to Arnold Schwarzenegger on a recent episode of the Daily Stokes podcast,

1:27.0

he talked about this very idea, and in fact, he references how inspired he was by meditations in the final chapter of his new book be useful.

1:34.8

Based on the surface Arnold Schwarzenegger's life story is a classic example of the self-made man,

1:40.6

born and raised in a small village in Austria, seemingly by his own sheer will and determination,

1:46.0

he achieved extraordinary success in the worlds of bodybuilding, acting, business, and politics,

1:51.4

ultimately becoming a global icon.

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