No Desire, Wedding Night Preparation, and Can't Reach Climax (Listener Questions)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Chris Taylor

Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Christianity

4.7 • 885 Ratings

🗓️ 25 July 2025

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

We tackle listener questions today from a wife who doesn't even want to want sex, a woman wanting to know how to prepare for her wedding night and marriage, and a wife who can't seem to get all the way there with orgasm.

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From the Bible

That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. Genesis 2:24

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives, where three marriage bloggers discuss the naked truth.
0:06.0	What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriages?
0:10.0	I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives.
0:12.0	I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice.
0:15.0	And I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous.
0:18.0	Pull up a chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat.
0:22.3	Welcome back to Sex Chat for Christian Wives.
0:24.8	We are here today with listener questions.
0:27.7	And we hope you listen to all of the questions because they affect different seasons of
0:32.9	life and you never know what's going to be right for you.
0:36.5	And if you have a question for us, you can go to our
0:39.8	website at 4 Christianwives. That's F-O-R-Christianwives.com and click on our Ask a Question link and
0:47.3	pose a question for us there. And we are going to start today with Bonnie. Bonnie, what question do you
0:53.2	have for us today? My question comes from a younger
0:57.3	woman who asks, do you have some resources in connection with your January 28th podcast,
1:04.1	which was, I looked it up, pursuing sexual growth? She says, I'm the lower desire wife.
1:09.9	There has been depression and sexual addiction
1:12.3	on my husband's part and purity culture avoidant personality on mine. We've been working through
1:17.6	counseling and are on the road to recovery, but I currently don't even have a desire to want to
1:24.7	learn how to enjoy sex. What resources would you recommend? The first thing I would
1:29.7	say is that this does not really sound like a sex problem yet. Right now, I think the sexual
1:35.7	addiction, I mean, I think that that probably is the primary issue right now. And it's hard to want
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