Nine Codependency Behaviors Religious Communities Reward in Christian Women [208]

Flying Free

Natalie Hoffman

Emotional, Narcissism, Christianity, Abuse, Religion & Spirituality, Spiritual, Christian, Self-improvement, Education, Divorce, Marriage

5 • 1K Ratings

🗓️ 31 January 2023

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

There’s a lot of confusion surrounding the term “codependency.” Is codependency bad? Am I codependent? How do I know? And what can I do differently if I want to break some of my codependent habits? In this episode, I break down eighteen different codependent thoughts and beliefs that many Christian women are taught. I also explore nine codependent “rules” that abusers and abusive religious communities hold us to that create codependence in us, and then I systematically explain why they are flawed and how we can change our thoughts surrounding them. We are not stuck in codependency. Let’s learn how to break free from the rules and regulations that keep us in codependent cycles. Key Points From This Episode: - Eighteen codependent behaviors or beliefs, and how I have related to them in the past (and why you might, too) - Nine crazy codependent rules that oppressive systems force on their victims - Why those rules are flawed and how to think about them through a different lens - Why we shouldn’t beat ourselves up if we find ourselves stuck in codependence Listen or download the transcript at flyingfreenow.com/208 FREE: I'll send you the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Just hop on my mailing list at flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download. (I will NEVER spam you or sell your information.) Desperate for real help and safe people who understand what you're going through? Find out about my online education and support program for women of faith at joinflyingfree.com And, if you are an already divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, have amazing relationships, build a business or career, or even find a good man - check out joinflyinghigher.com

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0:00.0	Hi, this is Natalie Hoffman of Flying Free Now.com and you're listening to the
0:09.3	Flying Free Podcast, a support resource for Women of faith, looking for hope and healing from hidden
0:16.4	emotional and spiritual abuse.
0:21.1	Welcome to episode 2008 of the Flying Free Podcast. We are going to be talking about
0:28.6	co-dependency today. But before we dig into our topic, I want to thank those of you who have left a rating and review for the Flying Free Podcast on your podcast app.
0:40.0	Here's one of the more recent ones. She writes, I joined Flying Free shortly after I left my emotionally, verbally,
0:46.8	and spiritually abusive husband of 24 years.
0:49.9	The way Natalie explains things is the truth I needed to hear and the resources she provides
0:55.8	is the healing I needed to become a better person and mom.
0:59.8	She teaches with truth, kindness, and humor. I joined other groups but didn't connect the way I did
1:06.0	with Flying Free. I am three years out and one and a half years divorced and still get encouragement and education from this
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