Nicole Kalil: Overcome Imposter Syndrome and Become Confident in 60 Minutes | Leadership | E193

Young and Profiting with Hala Taha

YAP Media Network | Hala Taha

Entrepreneurship, Business, Marketing

4.8 • 1.5K Ratings

🗓️ 24 October 2022

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

Thought leaders everywhere talk about the importance of being confident, but rarely do they explain how to develop true confidence that does not rely on external validation and praise. What steps can we take to develop true self-confidence? Nicole Kalil is known as the “Leadership and Confidence Sherpa.” She hosts a top 2% podcast called ‘This Is Woman’s Work’ that helps women develop trust and confidence within themselves and develop healthy partnerships along the way. She’s also the author of Validation Is For Parking, which reveals how to develop internal trust and reclaim confidence. In this episode, Nicole breaks down what confidence truly is and why trusting yourself is a vital component of confidence. Her and Hala talk about how to redirect your thoughts to shed your need for validation and how to manage your head trash in a more uplifting, productive way. Additionally, they dig into the discrepancy in confidence between genders and how we can eliminate gender expectations by encouraging authenticity. Topics Include: - Learning coaching from her dad - Serving as Development Officer - Choosing confidence over competence - The ‘Confidence Con’ - Validation addiction - What is true confidence? - Counteracting comparison and judgment - Managing our ‘head trash’ - Making up a better story - Breaking trust with yourself - Masculinity and femininity in the workplace - Starting Woman’s Work - How does Nicole advocate for women? - Eliminating gender expectations - Confidence in relationships - Confidence is a muscle - Some dangers of humility - Feel-good folder - And other topics… Nicole Kalil is an in-demand keynote speaker, leadership strategist, and respected coach with a passion for developing confidence and eliminating gender expectations. As a former Fortune 100 employee, she has coached hundreds of women in business, which gave her insight on what is and isn’t serving women and leaders within an organization. Her podcast, ‘This Is Woman’s Work,’ gives people actionable advice on strengthening confidence and changing the way we define ‘woman’s work.’ Nicole released her first book, Validation Is For Parking: How Women Can Beat the Confidence Con, on October 4, 2022, which serves as a guide for building internal trust, reclaiming confidence, eliminating the need for external validation, and breaking free from limiting beliefs. Resources Mentioned: ‘This Is Woman’s Work’ Podcast: https://nicolekalil.com/podcast Nicole’s Book, Validation Is For Parking: https://nicolekalil.com/book Nicole’s Website: https://nicolekalil.com/ Nicole’s LinkedIn: https://nicolekalil.com/ Nicole’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicolemkalil/?hl=en Nicole’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nicolemkalil/ Sponsored By: Swag.com - Go to swag.com/yap and get 10% off your order Sabio - Visit sabio.la/YAP for a $1,000 scholarship towards the cost of their bootcamp at Sabio! Shopify - Sign up for a free trial at shopify.com/profiting ClickUp - Sign up today at ClickUp.com and use code yap to get 15% off! More About Young and Profiting Download Transcripts - youngandprofiting.com Get Sponsorship Deals - youngandprofiting.com/sponsorships Leave a Review - ratethispodcast.com/yap Watch Videos - youtube.com/c/YoungandProfiting Follow Hala Taha LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Instagram - instagram.com/yapwithhala/ TikTok - tiktok.com/@yapwithhala Twitter - twitter.com/yapwithhala Learn more about YAP Media Agency Services - yapmedia.io/ Join Hala's LinkedIn Masterclass - yapmedia.io/course Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	I had spent so much energy trying to look the part of a confident and successful person.
0:06.2	It was always something I needed to do or achieve or prove.
0:11.6	And so at the height of my professional success of this Fortune 100 company, I felt like I was playing a part.
0:20.6	So many of us have become addicted to this external thing,
0:24.9	whether it be validation, whether it be income, whether it be a certain number on the scale,
0:29.7	and then we crave more of it, and then we become junkies for the thing. If we need validation,
0:35.6	if we need compliments, if we need successes in order to trust
0:40.5	ourselves, then it's not confidence at all.
0:45.7	What is up Young and Profiters?
0:49.2	You're listening to Yap Young and Profiting, where we interview the brightest minds in the world
0:54.5	and turn their wisdom into actionable advice that you can use in your daily life.
1:00.0	I'm your host, Halitaha, aka the podcast Princess.
1:04.1	Thanks for listening and get ready to listen, learn, and profit.
1:22.7	Hey Nicole, welcome to Young and Profiting Podcast.
1:25.5	Hala, thank you so much for having me.
1:27.3	It is an absolute privilege to be here.
1:33.5	I'm very excited for this conversation. You're one of my clients and my team absolutely loves you.
1:42.4	So I can't wait to get into this conversation. To introduce you to my Yap fam, Nicole Khalil is a speaker, respected coach and the host of This is Women's Work podcast.
1:45.1	You're also known as the Leadership and Confidence Sherpa. Nicole is also the author of the new book, Validation is for Parking. It's out now,
1:51.0	and she shares actionable steps to build and sustain the confidence required to accomplish
1:55.1	your dreams. So before we dive deep into the theme of today's episode, that's leadership and
1:59.3	confidence, I wanted to spend some
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