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We got an email just recently, Pam, that I love it when the SMR Nation speaks up to us and says,

hey, I think you guys will like this quote or this statement or something that they've come across

that just resonates. It's an email that just said, it's from a quote from W. Edward Dimmings

and it says, in God, we trust all others bring data.

That's the perfect quote for you. Yeah, everything's the data point.

I think so when we're talking about the human dynamic and relationship context that happens,

the best thing I can do is look at it as data, not personal because a lot of times when I take it

personal, that's when I can start spiraling and overreacting and my partner could do the same,

my kids and on and on it can go. It's so easy. If only we could have that logical train of thought

to say, okay, that's a good data point. I mean, for me, I just explode and say, are you kidding me?

It's not a data point until maybe two days later. I got you. Well, that's where the whole

psychological component of differentiation, which we've translated and referred to as just

growing up, comes into play because it's taking the thought process and the feeling process and

making it a higher level process, trying to use both. Don't just go one or the other because if

we just go logic brain, then we've turned robotic. And if we go over reactive, then we turn

scary. Well, this is sexy marriage radio. Thank you for taking some time out of the day.

To spend it with us each and every week, we're so grateful and honored that people speak up and

they join and talk about what's going on. Ask questions and you can call us at 214-7029-565.

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