I'm Claire Fallon and I'm Emma Gray and this is Love to See It, an obsessively detailed

recap podcast about reality dating shows like The Bachelor and other pop culture that makes us laugh, cry, and curse the patriarchy.

We can't live with these shows and we can't live without them, but we can break down every juicy moment and unpack all the weird messages these shows send us about love, sex, and dating.

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Welcome to Love to See It, a podcast about very shallow first impressions of future Bachelorette contestants and of course the courtship.

We have Bachelor Gossip, we have reactions to Gabby and Rachel's new cast and we have our thoughts on episode two of our favorite Regency-esque dating reality show which forged on with a boating and picnicking date this week.

So much to cover. I think we just got to dive in. We got a let's start with Bachelor Gossip.

We have an update, a little gossip update on a rumored Bachelor Nation couple in the offing Anna Redman from Matt James' season of The Bachelor and Chris Bukowski of many seasons of Bachelor franchise shows, but originally I believe Emily Maynard season of The Bachelor at have now officially hard launched their relationship.

We truly love to see it. She's been teasing this relationship, soft launching it in various TikToks. And finally, we just got a full slideshow on both of their Instagram pages of them just being cute together at a wedding.

The one post that did disturb me a little bit was that Anna posted just like a full video of them close up making out. And I'm concerned that Chris kisses by eating women's tongues.

It's just a concern I have. Yeah, they seem happy with each other. She sort of offers the tongue up to him and he kind of slurps it in. So maybe, you know what, who am I to shame what people like?

To me, this adds to the sort of like Travis and Courtney or like machine gun Kelly and Megan Fox five. But they have like, she's the pretty princess and he's the guy who like got drunk and fell into a campfire on Bachelor in Paradise kind of more of dirt bag type.

You know, it is that totally the hardened dirt bag meets on Janu relationship of the Bachelor world. I think that kissing tongues in public is a big part of that genre of relationship.

And I that to me says that they're embracing that, you know, well, we do have to just appreciate some really solid branding attempt. So I guess, you know what, congratulations to them.

Congratulations to their tongues. And we can't wait to see more from both of them speaking of bachelor couples Abigail Haranger also from that James's season is apparently officially moved in on the west coast with her boyfriend from the latest season of paradise.

No, I love their relationship me to I mean look, it's always a bummer to lose a New York based girly from bachelor nation. But I really support them being closer together. They seem very sweet and very committed and Noah's a traveling nurse.

So I assume that he got a contract in California. They appear to be living together in Huntington Beach currently and Abigail's family is also on the west coast. So yeah, she's from Oregon.

And I love what they have kind of built for it for themselves since coming off the show, like I think sometimes breaking up on paradise or even we've seen with some recent bachelor proper couples breaking up on the bachelor might sort of be a recipe for having a stronger relationship in the real world.

You can kind of come back together more intentionally out of the pressure cooker of the show your motives make more sense to you. There's more space to understand what you're getting into and what is really driving you into the relationship.

And they just always seem so so light and happy together.

I always just feel a hint of joy when I see them on my Instagram feed. I know we love some warm and fuzzies. Yeah, yeah, it makes me happy.

And speaking of bachelor couples that are moving on in their relationship, this is a big one. I actually don't follow JoJo. So I sometimes I don't know. I'm hit or miss with who I follow from past older seasons.

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