I'm Claire Fallon and I'm Emma Gray and this is Love to See It, an obsessively detailed

recap podcast about reality dating shows like The Bachelor and other pop culture that makes us laugh, cry, and curse the patriarchy.

We can't live with these shows and we can't live without them, but we can break down every juicy moment and unpack all the weird messages these shows send us about love, sex, and dating.

I'm the girl from the stock trop, love and fire. Can you keep up? I like love.

Welcome to Love to See It, a podcast about dating shows set in the Regency era and dating shows set on islands, temptation islands to be precise.

Oh, la la, and of course a podcast about dating shows that happen to be on hiatus right now. So we naturally have a bunch of bachelor news and gossip to get into.

And we're joined for a bachelor gossip today by as Du Moa would put it former model and current executive assistant. And also we have to say a plus tick tock maker Lexi Stau. Let's see, thanks for joining us.

Hi, a plus tick tock. That's like very, I love that.

You're in inspiration to your fellow millennials like me. I just need to find people just love New York apartments. So now I kind of have to like redecorate it, I think, because that's the only thing like they don't even like me. They just like my apartment.

So if that's if that's working, then I think I can.

Okay, this is the kind of content I need to start making. I need a tutorial from you. I like really I've been trying it's not been successful.

It all feels like a lot of effort. So I just really like aspire to be like my fellow millennials that have gotten into the tick tock game and just really gone for it.

I aspire to be liked primarily for my apartment, but no one will look at my apartment and be like, I really like her. So that's something for me to reach for.

I mean, it is an apartment with exposed brick and stairs and people think like it's so expensive and it's the coolest place ever. And I'm like, actually my rent is very cheap, but it's got everyone aspires to live.

The flag and you got a deal out here already just humble bragging on the plastic.

You know what real estate rental deal in New York is like a fucking diamond in the rough. You really do. You really do. But we have a lot to get into.

I just also want to say that coming soon, but not quite yet today, we will be doing a recap of the bachelor live show, which I saw on Saturday night.

It was a surreal experience to put it lightly also witness some very interesting fan behavior. So there'll be some gossip attached to that one too.

But yeah, the camera is turning on bachelor nation.

You will have to you will have to wait a little bit of time for that, but we will be taping that soon. I actually didn't make bachelor live because as you might be able to tell from my voice, I am extremely sick. I got a daycare cold from my son.

And I'm just like a wretched ball of snott right now. So I personally can't wait to hear. I'm a describe what went down at bachelor live.

That's exciting bachelor live. I can't believe they're doing it. I mean, Lexi, I saw you right before I went to bachelor live at a birthday party.

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