Newborn hot takes (vaccines, formula vs. breastfeeding & visitors in the first week)

Two Parents & A Podcast

Alex & Harrison Fugman

Relationships, Society & Culture, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.1 • 641 Ratings

🗓️ 16 April 2026

⏱️ 65 minutes

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This week on Two PARENTS & A Podcast, we have the parenting heavy episode you guys have been asking for :) With baby #2 coming in T-2 days, we’re revisiting all the newborn decisions that hit at once (that also happen to be some of the most loaded topics on the internet). So we rapid-fire (if 30+ mins can be considered rapid-fire) through the big ones: letting a newborn cry, co-sleeping, formula vs. breastfeeding, vaccinating on schedule, sleep training before 4 months, visitors in the first week, taking a newborn out in public early, feeding on demand, kissing the baby, and who should actually be getting up in the middle of the night. Before that, we get into Bicker of the Week x2 (turning off a show in the middle + fruit flies), when kids learn their parents’ first names (like does anyone actually know this answer??), and the very rude reminder that the last week of pregnancy is its own full-body (and mind) experience. Oh and Harrison told me that yes, my push present is now officially outside the return window lol. Then, because our brains are obviously in 14 places at once right now, we do a Bieber update (including the revelation that SWAG does NOT stand for swagger), Alex Cooper vs. Alix Earle (Lix vs. Lex), and end on the very weird emotional reality that baby #2 still isn’t fully clocking (s/o Justin) for us yet. LOVE YOU GUYS! Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast! 00:00:36 Bicker of the Week: Turning off a show in the middle 00:04:59 Bicker of the Week (pt. 2): Fruit flies 00:06:28 When do kids learn their parents’ first names? 00:10:18 I forgot how hard the last week of pregnancy is 00:11:55 10 rapid-fire newborn hot takes 00:12:15 1 - Letting a newborn “cry it out” 00:13:55 2 - Co-sleeping in the same bed 00:15:07 3 - Formula feeding vs. breastfeeding 00:20:08 4 - Vaccinating on schedule 00:27:18 5 - Sleep training before 4 months 00:31:37 6 - Visitors in the first week 00:35:25 Quick pause: My push present is outside the return window lol 00:37:29 7 - Taking a newborn out in public early 00:39:47 8 - Strict feeding schedule vs. feeding on demand 00:41:51 9 - Kissing the baby (friends/family) 00:42:41 10 - Mom vs. dad getting up in the middle of the night 00:45:20 S.W.A.G. (Bieber discussion continued) 00:54:15 Alex Cooper vs. Alix Earle 00:58:40 Baby #2 still isn’t clocking for us 01:03:38 LOVE YOU GUYS! #twoparentsandapod -------------------------------------------------------------- Thank you to our sponsors this week: *Quince: Go to https://www.Quince.com/ALEX for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! *Perelel: Exclusive for our listeners, new customers can enjoy 20% off their first order with code TWOPARENTS - Visit https://www.perelelhealth.com *Magnetic Me: Right now, new customers can get 15% off sitewide at https://www.magneticme.com *Bobbie: If you want to feed with confidence too, head to https://www.hibobbie.com for the formula trusted by 800,000+ parents. -------------------------------------------------------------- Listen to the pod on YouTube/Spotify/Apple: https://www.youtube.com/@twoparentsandapod https://open.spotify.com/show/7BxuZnHmNzOX9MdnzyU4bD?si=5e715ebaf9014fac https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-parents-a-podcast/id1737442386 -------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Two Parents & A Podcast: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/twoparentsandapod TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@twoparentsandapod Follow Alex Bennett: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/justalexbennett TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@justalexbennett Follow Harrison Fugman: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/harrisonfugman TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@harrisonfugman -------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House – https://www.justmediahouse.com/ -------------------------------------------------------------- Key Words: Two Parents & A Podcast, Alex Bennett, Harrison Fugman, newborn hot takes, newborn parenting hot takes, vaccines, vaccinating on schedule, formula vs. breastfeeding, formula feeding, breastfeeding, visitors in the first week, newborn visitors, co-sleeping, sleep training before 4 months, feeding on demand, taking a newborn out in public, kissing the baby, newborn parenting, pregnancy podcast, parenting podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:00.1	I think we may mix it up a little bit this week and may start bicker the week off
1:03.8	the top.
1:04.5	Oh.
1:05.0	Because we have a live, a live bicker, what I mean live in the past 12 hours.
1:10.4	What is it? I forgot.
1:27.8	One of the most wild pre-bedtime moves. Oh, yeah, yeah. Okay, wait, start the episode. I'd start it. So you can. No, no, you start it. What do I say again, Jules? No. I'll give you each time. Welcome back. To another episode. Of two parents and a podcast. Okay, I'm down to tag team it with you.
1:30.2	I feel like that didn't, wasn't official enough.
1:33.0	Welcome back to another episode of two parents and a podcast.
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1:36.2	So over, over, we've historically been like independent TV show bedtime people.
1:43.2	Like, we've operated on our own worlds pre-bed time.
1:46.8	But in the past, like I guess super, hold on.
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