Nelly & The Water Torturing Abuser | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture, Relationships

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🗓️ 3 February 2025

⏱️ 73 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Nelly shares her story of being in a relationship with a jealous abuser. Nelly met her ex on a dating app and was taken by his initial charm, however, his behavior then deteriorated, marked by jealousy, manipulation, and emotional abuse. It's a story of double standards, boundaries, jealousy, isolation, put downs, minimization, sexual coercion, gaslighting, low self esteem, addiction, abandonment, misogyny, and infidelity. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses sexual coercion. *** *** The audio quality of this episode is not the best due to the devices of the guest. Our apologies. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:32.1	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Nellie, and Nellie was in a
0:39.6	relationship with a water-torturing abuser. It's a story of boundaries, jealousy, isolation,
0:48.0	put-downs, gaslighting, and double standards.
1:10.1	Music and double standards. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
1:16.1	I am Brandon Chadwick and with me today we have Nellie.
1:21.4	How are you?
1:23.3	I'm good.
1:24.0	How are you?
1:25.1	I am doing well.
1:26.9	Thank you for asking. And if you want to be a guest like Nellie is today,
1:31.0	please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com and click on the guest form button at the top of the page.
1:37.2	And there you can read all of our instructions. And please read them all and either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our
1:45.5	guest form and press the submit button and please do send it in the format that we ask for.
1:50.3	And we do have a content warning for this episode as we do discuss sexual coercion in this
1:55.0	story. So that's our content warning for today. And also for a warning for today, as there are a lot of sound issues with this
2:02.7	episode, as the devices used for this episode during the call-in were not the best quality. So just a
2:10.2	big content warning for you on the sound quality today. And if it's not for you, please just know
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